There is nothing alpha about tormenting a lonely woman.

culofiesta · 2014-06-20T22:23:46+00:00

It is the result of men being shamed and ridiculed for being in the same situation. While women like this are encouraged, supported and "empowered", her male peers would be shamed and laughed at because it is socially accepted to do so right now.

Isaiah4verse1 · 2014-06-20T22:11:42+00:00

There is a saying: You are the author of your own misery.

Everyone loves poetic justice.

AreYouAware_ · 2014-06-20T21:31:57+00:00

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circlhat · 2014-06-20T22:15:35+00:00

We aren't tormenting anyone, the wall and hypergamy are good things for women as they are in her best interests, its not in a males best interests, but it is in our best interests to understand.

You are missing the point, Its explain why women in their 20's want to sleep around and when they are 30 they decide to settle down.

A women in her 20's is very fertile so evolutionary she will want to have sex as much as possible and get the strongest male. When she is 30 she will need someone to take care of her 4 kids , so she will look for a beta male.

To prove this concept we post examples.

The RedPill is about SELF improvement

No its not, read the side bar, you are very blue pill

And someone will post it on threredpill talking about the wall/hypergamy etc.

We aren't pointing it out as a fault, those aren't faults, they are truths, they help shape our perception of females.

Try_2 · 2014-06-20T22:03:17+00:00

a woman in college is in her sexual prime. She's surrounded by, and isolated with, dozens, perhaps hundreds, of eligible young men, many of whom would be perfectly acceptable mates. So, how do you explain her inability to get a mate while in college? Well, there are several reasons:

1) she wanted to sleep around and have fun;

2) she wanted to focus on her career, and delay her family;

3) She's ugly or unappealing in some other way.

4) her standards were too high, or she overvalued herself relative to the pool of potential mates.

The point is, she had the best opportunity she would ever have to get a mate and she blew it. And now, that she's past her sexual prime and she's running out of time, OP advises her to "cast a wider net." Do you see the irony? She shouldn't have to cast a wider net, she had a pool full of fish, all she had to do was grab one.

PaulRivers10 · 2014-06-20T22:09:48+00:00

Sometimes those comments get to harsh and to personal, and I'm not a fan.

But some of the anger and responses come from the fact that feminists (and really, women in general for once rather than it just being feminists) have spent decades lying to everyone and making it "offensive" to point out that as a women gets older, her attractiveness goes down.

If you're a plate spinner, this is an annoyance but not a huge deal. It's annoying when women will try to "shame" you for not desiring women older than you do. But it's just one of a million attempts to shame guys, and it's not going to change your mind.

But if you're looking for a relationship, this is a complete pain in the ass. The majority of women nowadays are taught to avoid guys who are supportive and looking for commitment. And one part of that is constantly repeating to them that age doesn't matter, they'll be attractive to guys forever, "having fun" is pointedly having sex without commitment (and is never depicted as a relationship actually having fun), with guys who are emotionally unable or unwilling to commit. And one way of communicating how this doesn't work out very well is pointing out bad examples.

We need more pointing out of how much crap this is. At least, those of us interested in a relationship do. If you plan to spin plates forever, it's probably not a big deal for you.

For women, it's always been a tension between the attractiveness of mr completely alpha no attachment, vs mr stable relationship. It's always been that way. But in the past, at least the average woman realized that she was making a tradeoff - she was a little bit scared of settling down with mr to-beta, but also a little bit scared of ending up to old and less attractive having been with mr-no-attachment-alpha.

But now she's being told - don't worry about it. You'll always be attractive. She doesn't stop having that attitude until she hits the wall. And you know what? If all women do this, it's a somewhat effective strategy - human beings aren't going to stop having sex. Relationship guys will settle for the "past my prime" women because there's just no other alternative.

Our society is a little cruel in need to mock people publicly in order to use them as an example of when things go bad, but I just don't know how to else to do it. I do know that since women publicly mock men in this same fashion, that it's a bad idea to not mock them back, if you do they end up with all the power.

Midnight_in_Seattle · 2014-06-20T21:56:05+00:00

Being some angry bitter cunt, that posts fake field reports, and tormenting old women isn’t doing shit for you.

There is entirely too much of this behavior here. As with any movement or ideology, dissenting voices and opinions tend to get shouted down, or, in this case, voted down.

cray-cray-cray · 2014-06-20T21:50:05+00:00

IF you are 40 fucking a 20 year old, it probably is because you have money and you guys got some sugar daddy arrangement going on.

Not true AT ALL. I know this sub is full of younger guys, but this is not talk from experience... and if it is, then it's not the advice you are looking for.

There is nothing alpha about tormenting a lonely woman.

I do agree with that. I'll comfort and fuck them. I don't celebrate their bad life decisions.

knitro · 2014-06-20T21:55:02+00:00

Agreed - some explanation:

You see these posts frequently because a lot of people fail to progress past stage 2 of the Kübler-Ross model applied to TRP, which is anger.

I've been meaning to write something longer on this - but the transformation from bp to rp is perfectly encapsulated in the Kübler-Ross model.

Meglomaniac · 2014-06-20T21:43:13+00:00

The thing that bothers me the most about those women is that they still have illusions that they can withhold pussy and still be able to keep a man interested.

Jesus christ marie, you're 30+ years old. If you like the guy enough on the first date, fuck him! You're not gunna keep a decent man around at 30+ if you are not putting out.

atl30313 · 2014-06-20T22:23:04+00:00

IF you are 40 fucking a 20 year old, it probably is because you have money and you guys got some sugar daddy arrangement going on.

Thanks for the laugh. There are many men in my social circle that would stand as examples in opposition to your opinion. They don't have a sugar daddy relationship they just happen to be married and have kids with women half their age. The caveat is they're all successful in business and well respected socially.

snr73 · 2014-06-20T22:45:00+00:00

And there's nothing feminist about tormenting a lonely man. Thanks for this. (please read before it gets downvoted into oblivion.)

weallgonnamakeitbra · 2014-06-20T21:40:31+00:00

I agree. Ignoring the fact I have a few 30 y/o chick friends who are still pretty hot, making fun of some confused post wall girl isn't going to save the world.

RP/BP examples are everywhere in the world. don't be so outwardly focused. make yourself better, bang whoever you want based upon your own preferences, and ignore everything else. other people's misery shouldn't make you happy.

NoFatChicks88 · 2014-06-20T22:14:35+00:00

TRP needs to be less about woman-shaming and more about reclaiming masculinity and tips on how to lead a better life.

These kinds of men are mostly blue-pill rejects (that have always been unsuccessful with women) that get hit by the truth so hard that it turns them bitter and bent on revenge.

edit: downvoted for this comment...really?

BluepillProfessor · 2014-06-20T22:02:52+00:00

There is a lot of anger in this Reddit. Yesterday I was downvoted because I spoke out against a dude breaking up with his GF just as she wakes up in the hospital with a new baby lying next to her. Thought it was very uncool and not Alpha at all even though the baby wasn't his apparently. He had a reason for revenge but doing it like that, and like OP suggests is not Alpha.

As Arnold tells us: Relax. You'll live longer.

Title	There is nothing alpha about tormenting a lonely woman.
Author	PraytoAres
Upvotes	24
Comments	47
Date	June 20, 2014 9:17 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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