I've been reading and trying to apply TRP to my life for about 6 months now.

Previously I was a sad excuse for a man for years - this includes having a horrible, hurtful TEN YEAR LDR in which no sex was ever had. :(

Anyway, a few things happened to me lately that made me realise that I am finally starting to get things right:

  • I took a tinder date a month or so ago home to my bed on the first day of meeting her. In my more blue pill days I had admitted (defeat) to myself that I just did not have what it takes to bed a girl the same day I meet her. being able to do this did wonders for my general confidence.

  • A week ago a girl told me that she "likes me broad chest". I used to be the skinniest guy in any room you put me into so this comment made me really smile inwards. I have a very very long way to go but the past few months of lifting seem to be working, albeit slowly.

  • A few days ago I was to have a date with a girl that I have known for a while. She made up some stupid excuse and was later by about two hours. I called her and told her to just go home because I no longer wanted to meet her. My old blue self would never ever let me speak to a girl in such a way. You know what happened? She texted me the next days saying "sorry for my misconduct the other night, it will never happen again". I know this is not a big deal for many here, but it is a huge deal to me that a girl can actually apologise to me!

This concludes my mini FR. Back to lifting and reading the sidebar.