This is going to sound crazy

fstrizzy · 2017-05-10T04:42:28+00:00

TRP is not a magic pill that's going to get you laid. I think a ton guys are reading way too far into this and it's pretty sad honestly. You can sit here and read this shit all day, use all of the terminology, hold "frame" (lol) and do all of the other over analytical shit they talk about on here and still never get even as much as a blowjob. The only way to do it is quite simple. Just make the fucking move. Get the girl alone with you after you've gotten comfortable with each other and then go for the kiss. If she's responsive (she should be), escalate the situation further until you're bustin a nut on her back. It's really fuckin simple bro. Don't read too far into this shit. That's your first problem bro. How is anyone supposed to seem natural if they're constantly running through some mental TRP checklist in their mind every time they interact with a woman? Don't be that way. If a chick agrees to hangout with you that means she's already mentally decided that she would fuck you. And if there is ever a chance that that doesn't end up being the case there is zero reason to give her another second of your time. If a chick really wants to fuck a guy she's going to make it extremely easy for him to fuck her. End of story.

shitwiththatass · 2017-05-10T04:23:39+00:00

Dear God dude, use paragraphs.

but after a while they start to lose interest and talk themselves out of fucking me

There's your answer. You take too long.

Also, use paragraphs.

BestSC86 · 2017-05-10T04:29:24+00:00

I suspect that there is a big difference between being cocky attractive and being just an arrogant dickwad.

If you are driving away bros particularly and girls are jumping ship after a couple of weeks of your brashness...then you are running 15 on 10pt scare for the arrogant cocky shit.

Are you fun is another big consideration. And always keep in your mind, the maxim that girls get wet for cocky, jackasses who "think they are special enough" to tone it down in private....you have heard it a million times....a girl fucking an asshole claim that he really isn't like that, her parent's don't know how "nice" that drug dealing thug really is underneath....blah, blah, blah.

gideon_zotero · 2017-05-10T07:17:57+00:00

I was a bad kid with a reputation for doing the funniest craziest shit around my schoo sounds like a clown

I feel like I hit all the marks here feeling doesn't make it true

I only got laid by bitches that were well below my SMV that's the rule of the game, you always fuck something below your SMV unless you have game. Game isn't getting pussy, it's getting higher pussy than it would be natural.

My friends stopped hanging with me as much, they would always throw shit tests my way, I don't know if it is because they were intimidated or because they actually didnt enjoy my presence.

Notice that you are in reaction to them. This whole post is about how society doesn't accept you and give you things. You aren't IDGAF you are pretending to get a reaction and attention.

confirming I am attractive. Then I tease, I escalate with kino, but after a while they start to lose interest and talk themselves out of fucking me.

Even when women are showing interest you still perform and play the monkey.

but they tell me to "just be myself"

i.e. "dude, you're not fooling anyone, we're on to you"

SkorchZang · 2017-05-10T05:59:50+00:00

Here's my take- this can happen if you find yourself more focused on yourself in social interaction than on the girls you're with. It can be very subtle and they still pick it up.

DGAF attitude is great, but it's better when backed up by a little cocky charm that makes a girl feel special. Teasing is great, but you do better if you tease them like they're your bratty little sister, instead of in a more cruel and DGAF way.

I think they're picking up on the vibe that you emit, which is too warlike. It's like you're a selfish rejector of all humankind, instead of its protector or friend. It's too warlike for only one reason, because of being too focused on self, failing to see into the girl's inner world whatsoever. To the point that she may feel like she doesn't exist, which puts her off.

What do you think about that?

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2017-05-11T11:29:37+00:00

They may not be seeing enough social proof with you. But throwing in some relatable beta traits might be the trick also. I don't know man. Maybe they feel you're driving to hard to the hoop with them, so they back off a bit, while your more mild friends are more casual about it. Most women like male intensity but they don't like being under the gun of male intensity.

Maneytalks · 2017-05-10T05:18:54+00:00

Bro that was me. I would get chicks interested with my no fucks given attitude and still fuck it up. You have to learn when to go for the kill. If you keep the charade for too long eventually chicks will take you for a clown. Once you're one on one escalate the sexual tension. You're in you just gotta calibrate.

[deleted] · 2017-05-10T12:06:05+00:00

Heightism. People disrespect you because your height.

thepind · 2017-05-10T04:27:59+00:00

You sound just like me in highschool. I was an amateur boxer and messing with a lot of girls got in to too many fights because of it. The issue with girls not giving it up to guys like us is they think/know we can get any girl we want and they don't just want to be one of your "hoes" and feel used or whatever goes through their head (unless they one of those that don't care) Sometimes you just gotta show them a little affection make them feel real special

SasquatchMcKraken · 2017-05-10T05:06:32+00:00

Notice that when big cats run down their prey, they don't simply wrestle it to the ground and try to paw it to death. They bite the motherfucker in the throat. It sounds like you lack a killer instinct. You can draw them in but you're not closing. Why is that? Lack of confidence face-to-face? On top of not closing the deal, you said your friends started fucking with you and you self-described your face as "sometimes pretty." Is there a touch of the effeminate about you? I'm not being a dick, it's just that something is bringing you up short. You need to identify what it is, and then annihilate it. You sound confident in this post, so it's possible you're just being too arrogant. But being too arrogant rarely leads to this kind of problem. Maybe the no friends part, but seldom the "can't fuck" part. You'd have to be almost cartoonishly arrogant to not slam at least some hotties.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-05-10T13:11:15+00:00

I'm hearing a deep seated aggression in your thinking.

"Meanness" is not an Alpha trait.

Why?

Well, because an Alpha is generally always trying to Game everyone around them which can range from ruthless exploitation to good leadership. At times the Alpha must punish others, but if all you do is punish that wil be perceived as being like a tyrant.

You need to develop some smooth moves to soften your Game and shift it more towards a balanced carrot and stick.

Avoid extremes... extremes tend to signal "something is wrong" and that's where you are getting these negative reactions.

Alpha does not mean you are cruel to everyone all the time.

Alpha is best seen as "Amused Mastery".

Be more fun.

Reward others when their behavior pleases you.

yomo86 · 2017-05-10T14:28:18+00:00

Nice memo from my life: If you approach guns blazing which does not need to exclude charm and go for a kiss and get rejected you are just another sex crazed man she can lament to her friends about. Waiting and then trying to get physical will carry the stigma of being a creep.

zephyrprime · 2017-05-10T16:08:23+00:00

There's no way of telling without seeing you in action.

stemgang · 2017-05-10T16:12:07+00:00

All I can say is to reinforce that "Just be yourself" is the worst possible advice.

I don't mean that personally towards you; it is shit advice for everyone.

If everything was fine, then no one would be seeking to improve....and "just be yourself" robs people of that chance.

GrandpaCrocket · 2017-05-10T07:44:24+00:00

You sound like the planet's biggest douchebag. Your results are not surprising.

Title	This is going to sound crazy
Author	throwinghthisoneaway
Upvotes	23
Comments	40
Date	May 10, 2017 4:11 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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