Not much to say in this post other than that all these limiting beliefs are just excuses.

So about a year ago I got dumped by my ex-girlfriend and made a tinder. I had almost 0 matches after a month of swiping right and the few matches I had weren't good looking to say the least. I was pretty upset and all my other minority friends kept saying "I guess tinder doesn't work unless you're white".

I had been stupid bulking before that putting on a ton of fat with no real strength gains and I looked pretty bad. Well after that I hit the gym HARD putting on a good amount of muscle and getting a set of abs. Perfect diet and cutting alcohol out completely. Decided fuck it let's try tinder again. My dad's a photographer and took a pretty nice shot of me which I used as my main profile. 5 QUALITY matches in first hour, (4 not so quality haha).

Stop looking at what you can't change and focus on what you CAN change. My advice: stop making excuses and hit the gym. The barbell is your best friend.