TRP advice for physically unimposing men (beta disposition)

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-05-31T17:05:13+00:00

It's called lifting weights and doing cardio. Do it, feel great about yourself, be awesome.

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-05-31T19:56:44+00:00

I'll tell you my shameful secret. I'm disabled. LOL. No bullshit. My spine is bent, and I walk with a cane.

Guess what. Doesn't matter. It's all how you present yourself.

Bitches gotta get to know me first. But when they do, they realize I am a motherfucker. lol

TehGinjaNinja · 2013-05-31T18:20:41+00:00

Adopting a new set of behaviors always feels unnatural at first.

At 5'5" you're taller than most men throughout history. Your real problem is your mind set. If you "feel like a child trying to emulate a man" then that's your problem right there.

What does being a man mean to you and why do you feel you fall short of that definition?

kukul · 2013-05-31T18:27:33+00:00

Watch "The Mentalist" for an example of a physically unimposing alpha.

Lifting won't hurt though.

lono12 · 2013-05-31T20:07:16+00:00

you need to do whatever you can to raise your testosterone. Make your face more masculine while you still have time.You will never be seen as sexually attracive witrh a baby face.

This is the dom chart. Tracks increasing masculinity and how it correlates with sexiness.

http://imageshack.us/a/img593/9944/facialtypes.png

http://ars.els-cdn.com/content/image/1-s2.0-S1090513805000188-gr2.gif

shamanbard · 2013-05-31T20:17:43+00:00

Read dannyfrom504.com

He's a redpill game blogger who stands 5'4" with a baby face. He's in the navy, shoots guns, etc.

Read his blog from old to new.

2013-05-31T20:30:19+00:00

You might find Audie Murphy interesting: real-life war hero in WW2 and Hollywood action hero in the 50's. Also: 5'5", babyfaced even into his thirties, and softly-spoken. An unlikely action hero, very interesting to watch. Type his name into Youtube and you'll find a few of his movies.

thereisnosuchthing · 2013-05-31T22:00:10+00:00

you work the 'mysterious' route, you don't need to be "dominant" necessarily, you just need to display thinking that suggests you have no need of them(the women you are interacting with), that you could take them or leave them even though you are nice to them(like a cool "gentleman" but not in a cliche way, in a "I could brush you off but I'm being okay to you instead") way, and act like you're not interested in them but you could be if they make you.

I'm telling you dude, women's minds are all about social things. Social value based on limited perception rather than reality. Social interaction rather than the truth. It doesn't matter, if you seem to carry yourself as the most interesting or important person in the room, you basically are those things to a woman, as long as you are good about it, they will go along with you. That is what women are built for romantically - being receptive and "going along with" what the other person (who they want) does. Be someone they should want and they'll "go along with you" .."being dominant" as described in this community when boiled down simply means taking risks and not being concerned about anyone's opinion BUT YOUR OWN ..it means not being a beta bitch who is going to wait for a woman to do everything for them and hoping for a woman who will come a. tell them she likes them, b. grab their hand and haul them away into a bedroom, c. ask if they are going on a date, etc.. waiting for HER to take risks to give you what you want ..because that's never going to happen.

5HydroxymethylC · 2013-05-31T17:18:34+00:00

I have a good friend who is 5'5" (or shorter). He has been studying martial arts from the time he was a teenager and has multiple black belts. Lifts weights, etc. Extremely cocky. He's lucky in that his face is handsome.

I do have to reveal that he's gay, so the same rules don't exactly apply here, but he's always been extremely successful in the sexual marketplace. Still, his angle is very TRP and not "cute young waifish thing" so his case somewhat applies to you. With enough effort you can get to a similar place, which will spark interest simply out of incongruity ("I need to figure out what is up with this short guy who is so cocky")

rubashov22 · 2013-05-31T19:58:08+00:00

What kind of dominant behavior are you trying to emulate? I'm your age and your size, but my height doesn't really bother me. When you're in this spot you need to cultivate your intelligence and your wit; you can be just as alpha as the 6'3 guy, but you just need to push your strengths and avoid the obvious pitfall of trying to beat the bigger guy at his own game.

2013-05-31T22:05:42+00:00

Being alpha is a mindset, there are no physical requirements.

I remember watching one of those prison shows at an all-womens jail. The dominant females took on the role of men and were gaming the weaker women left and right. Shit was eye opening.

These chicks don't have dicks at all and are running alpha male game and getting their commissary filled by the feminine "caretaker" women. Wish I had the link but I'm sure it's out there somewhere.

Anyway, if they can do it, I'm sure your short weakling ass can.

Hormander · 2013-05-31T19:36:17+00:00

As long as you have a dick, you're manly. So, just work the fuck out and produce some testosterone. Also, let your beard grow.

brbtldr · 2013-06-01T19:48:34+00:00

I would say that a good voice is exactly as important/useful/valuable (of course depending on the situation) as looks..

A well dressed babyfaced man with a confident walk and a loud, clear voice definitely gets some!

ct2k7 · 2013-06-02T09:26:15+00:00

Sometimes I don't know where I fit in.

I'm 5'2" and I've just turned 20. I have a stockyish build from when I did wrestling whilst at school. Beyond that, I'm in stable employment, and am well/highly regarded by my peers. At work, people think that I'm older than I am, apparently, I don't act childish, I am firm and I'm stubborn. I know that when I have my eyes set on something, I will do my damnest best to get it and I am confident that I will get it. I rely on no one else but myself to provide for me.

I am a software developer and have numerous certifications behind me, providing reinforcement that I know what I'm talking about. I have my future education planned and my career in focus. I know what I want to do, how to do it and have prepared a non-prescriptive schedule of where I should be.

I don't really have a baby face; I have a very carefully and intricately maintained beard (cue endless questions asking if I've used a stencil to maintain it). My voice needs work on as done my inner confidence.

That's a lot of me in there, but I am that self centred when it comes to life; my peers can only supplement me, no provide for me.

trp-throwaway · 2013-06-05T03:07:15+00:00

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Raw_God · 2013-05-31T18:06:00+00:00

It does get easier as you get older. Lift the weights and be a cocky bastard. I'm 5'8" and do fine, and I personally know a guy who is 5'4" and kills it with the ladies (including some who are 6' in heels).

chikinpickle · 2013-05-31T18:14:38+00:00

Get mega-jacked. Do combat sports. Start responsibly carrying a gun. You will be able to utterly destroy 99% of the population in an instant, yet at the same feel the weight of avoiding physical confrontation at all costs due to the repercussions of exercising that power. This should bolster your confidence and self-awareness.

Alternatively, ass pennies.

Title	TRP advice for physically unimposing men (beta disposition)
Author	trp-throwaway
Upvotes	12
Comments	36
Date	May 31, 2013 4:52 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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