Tutorial: how to Red Pill your friends

PartytimeEscape · 2014-11-11T21:14:49+00:00

Tried to do this with a bunch of friends in high school and college. At first they look up to you like you're some kind of wizard. Eventually they all took a run at my plates or current gf to see if the apprentice has become the master. Ultimately every guy I've introduced to this mindset has tried to take something from me and it's ruined everyone of those relationships. Tl;Dr don't do it, the betas will eventually try to take over. They can't, but it's annoying that someone you tried to help out ultimately ends up trying to stab you in the back.

BhiQ · 2014-11-11T21:12:06+00:00

Yeaaa, get that nofap shit out of here.

RedPill is hated enough, don't need a bunch of porn addicts telling me I'm addicted to porn.

stilllearningsed · 2014-11-11T20:13:38+00:00

Eh, can't save the unwilling.

I'm okay with this as a guide IF your friend is actively seeking your advice on their dating life. Otherwise you should just guide by example.

That being said, fuck /r/nofap that shit is a cult at this point. If you want to correct that particular issue try /r/pornfree instead. Personally I don't think it's worth bringing up unless there are drive/performance issues to address.

user0159 · 2014-11-11T20:08:38+00:00

being in engineering school, this hits too close to home

So many dudes putting a few chicks on the highest pedestal.

Thanks

Bronotrelevant · 2014-11-11T20:15:03+00:00

This is good if someone comes to you for advice first don't go around trying to change the world OP. Only those who want to listen will. Wasting energy on people who don't want to change instead of spending it on yourself is a waste of time.

JP_Whoregan · 2014-11-12T00:51:23+00:00

We're harsh to newcomers because we have to be, especially in the face of our recent growth. This was the reason u/MachiavellianRed made the sticky post he made. It is happening with more frequency that we are getting not only pill-seeking men, but also more and more "curious" women and concern trolls who want to come rattle our cage here in our little corner of Reddit.

Roseburn · 2014-11-11T21:04:31+00:00

One thing I learned about telling my friends about this stuff is that they don't believe it until they try it. Having them try it is the hardest part because they think it will ruin a relationship with some chick.

Cacciaguida · 2014-11-11T22:57:49+00:00

I wish people would stop pushing no fap here.

FaithfulJinn · 2014-11-12T04:34:02+00:00

WRONG WRONG WRONG.

The best way to red pill the people around you is to red pill YOURSELF.

When they start to notice your transformation they will come to you.

Claude_Reborn · 2014-11-12T07:43:45+00:00

No matter how a jackass may travel, it will not return a horse. - Old proverb.

We shouldn't be promoting TRP like some sort of fucking self help book because that will get us unwanted attention from all the wrong groups and eventually the sub here will get deleted.

All it will take is a major media outlet raising a stink about this sub, and we are gone.

So, first rule of trp is YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT TRP !

Geeze get it through your fucking heads guys !

TekkomanKingz · 2014-11-11T22:00:51+00:00

Can't emphasize this enough but per the OP's original post nofap should be the very last lesson. It is highest in difficulty.

[deleted] · 2014-11-12T05:19:44+00:00

Unfortunately there is usually only one option once you've turned red pill: get new friends.

In life I find blue pill friends are never truly friends. Ask yourself this: if I was falsely accused of rape by some chick that was a mutual friend, would they give me the benefit of the doubt or would they jump on the crucifixion bandwagon. There are two things that are extremely important for building a strong friendship with other men: respect and loyalty.

Respect being a mutual acknowledgement that as a collective you are stronger than as individuals. Respect to allow each other room to grow and respect to give and receive encouragement to allow both parties to achieve greater prosperity in life.

Loyalty meaning you know they wouldn't do something shitty to you for their own personal gain. If theyre hitting on your plates/gf they arent your friends. If theyd throw you under the bus for a chance at B grade pussy they arent your friends. If they'd crucify you for a percieved social shortcoming that doesnt directly affect them they arent your friends.

I find most blue pill men usually can't even live up to even a fraction of these very simple basic requirements of male friendship. Even many red pill men have trouble with these, but without these you don't have a friendship. You have two people leaning on each other to pass the time or in wait of a better opportunity.

I'm not saying to throw your friends away and forget them, just reclassify them appropriately. Perhaps feed them nuggets of truth and if one day they wake up and join you in the new world, welcome them.

New_Horiz0ns · 2014-11-12T14:33:42+00:00

Be a pimp and leave your betas behind.

prodigyx · 2014-11-11T21:15:44+00:00

Seems silly to put so much effort into improving other's lives when we still have so much improvement left to do in our own lives.

I'm not saying to ignore your friends if they ask for help, but there is no

correct way of forcing the red pill down your friends' throat

The correct thing to do is to focus on improving yourself. If your friends ask you how you are so successful, then go ahead and explain the philosophy to them.

Being on this subreddit is useless for me nowadays. It's just all common sense for me now

Sounds like you have become complacent. I guarantee there are things on here that you can still learn from.

yeahweewee · 2014-11-11T22:54:00+00:00

there not the same though, they don't see anything wrong with their current lifestyle whereas alot of us here often hated it.

iluminatiNYC · 2014-11-12T00:31:59+00:00

FYI, Try Calm.com for meditating. They have a website and apps for Android and iPhone. That shit rules, and gets my mind right.

HyperSpaceKush · 2014-11-12T02:48:54+00:00

That conquer your campus link was awesome! Thanks for posting OP! I highly recommend it to anybody in school.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-11-12T05:05:02+00:00

I don't think this is much of a tutorial. I was looking for What are the steps to introduce your friend to the Red Pill? What topics do you avoid at first? What do you talk about first? Do you start with Morpheus?

Personally I talk with my friends and family straight up about The Red Pill. I don't recommend this but I am a wordsmith with more graduate degrees than common sense so I think I have had as much success as failure doing this- which is pretty damn good actually insofar as the dire warnings from dudes here about "Fight Club" and what not.

It's just truth, brothers. Hard truth, but definitely truth. I just tell my buds about Hypergamy, AF/BB, and orbiters and social conventions like LJBF and even the feminine imperative. I dropped Solopsism on my sister who was out of arguments and hung up on me when I told her to prove me wrong byatch. Well prove us wrong motherfuckers.

Cryocasm · 2014-11-12T00:18:14+00:00

You can't turn beta men, it just isn't possible.

In February/March when I decided to get back into my "alpha" mode, I quickly saw myself becoming visible even in the higher ranks of the society I live in.

I switched friend circles twice and am now settling into the third and (hopefully final) one before I hopefully get my diploma in June.

If you become more alpha and express more TRP traits, naturally more TRP-inclined men will notice you. You will (unless you're socially completely inept, but this sub assumes you aren't) rise through social ranks based on your behavior.

I've been at my school barely a year and 2 months and I'm already quite known and have ready game on any 6/10s easy no effort. Find new friends, because male bonding facilitates locking in these new traits, beta men will tell each other and perpetuate their own defeat by telling themselves and their friends how "oh I don't get women" and "why won't she see the value in me" and blah blah.

More alpha-inclined men will have a different attitude towards women "man I hooked up with that bitch now her best friend is all over me goddamn".

Title	Tutorial: how to Red Pill your friends
Author	self_lmprover
Upvotes	49
Comments	32
Date	November 11, 2014 7:56 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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