I recently filed fully for divorce from my wife, only paying child support too since she divorced me in Mexico where she is a citizen, but I still see her every weekend because of our son (99.9% chance he is my son according to paternity test). A few months ago she started dating another guy (too fucking soon right? But whatever, doesn't matter now), and she actually recently cheated on HIM with me, because she rathers how I make love to her and the fact I can actually make her orgasm. Honestly, I could care less that she cheats on him, so no need to bring that up. I only just barely am getting into working out, eating right, and the red pill in general, so I'm not dating like she is...

...but I wonder, is it okay to use her as a way to test how well I'm internalizing confidence, presence, frame, etc.? Maybe at that point I'm being flat out manipulative though, so I don't know if I should.