We can't help you

IllimitableMan · 2013-12-12T21:30:33+00:00

TRP is about more than pussy.

A lot of people use TRP and as soon as they get laid they go full beta.

You really have to cognitively retrain yourselves not to put the pussy on a pedestal. It sounds generic but its true. How quickly so many guys change when a hot girl is around is so pathetic, so weak, it's like they lose all control of themselves. No frame control whatsoever. In fact a lot of guys turn into annoying fucking people when a hot chick is around. No integrity whatsoever.

I'm that guy who acts like I give no fucks about the hot girl. Sure she's attractive, sure I probably wouldn't mind fucking her, but I'm not about to give that girl my power by validating the fuck out of her.

You need to start valuing yourselves more than women. Men bring a lot more to the table than women, their value INCREASES with age (appreciating asset) a womans value DECREASES with age (depreciating asset)

Women hit 16-18 and hit the jackpot, they're young, fertile, the worlds at their feet, they go through puberty and grow some ass/titties and all of a sudden men are throwing themselves at them. Showing her attention, showering her with gifts, she's living the easy life.

The thing is, it's a temporary ride. She'll hit 30, her looks are degenerating, she's been soullessly fucking different guys for years, avoiding "the nice stable guys" you know, the ones that would treat her like a human and not a fuck object aka "completely boring" and all of a sudden come 30 her biological clock kicks in, she realises she's running out of time, if she's not had a kid she wants one and she wants to lock down a nice boring guy who makes bank to raise her kid with. The thing is, it's selfishness, and it's out of a genetic desire to procreate, not out of love/attraction. These guys comprise what you see as todays divorce statistics.

Men on the other hand are relatively powerless at the same age 16-18, the things that attract women are very rarely possessed by men at this age, a strong sense of self/masculinity/leadership, an athletic body, money/resources/has a car etc. Women your own age are dating guys far older than you (18 year old girls fucking 35 year old career men you can't possibly compete with at your age) most the guys your age are getting undersexed and lifes pretty unfair.

Then you hit your late 20's and early 30's and assuming you worked on yourself, have a career, a good body and have developed some character over the years, all of a sudden, all the chicks who ignored you when you were younger, who are now a lot more used up and washed up are "suddenly" looking to settle down and thus start showing you interest.

The ones who gave no fucks at all about you 5 years ago? The chicks who turned you down for rudimentary superficial reasons, too nice, too poor, too boring.. whatever.. now your value has gone up and hers has gone down she wants a piece. She thinks "you're worthy of her now" but the thing is, she isn't what she was, she's depreciated and you've appreciated yet she still carries around that sense of entitlement, that you're lucky she's even picking you now, despite the little fact, you know, you're match of a catch than she is nowadays. You're in your prime, her prime was 10 years ago at 20, not 30.

An RP man knows "I can do better than the bitch who passed me up" or never had the time of day for you when you weren't shit but pleads for commitment now. You know what that should make you aware of? Just how conditional her attraction/love really is, if you ever find yourself in a rough spot, this bitch will jump ship whilst you sink and go sleep in the warm cozy bed of another mans ship (read: her most trusted beta orbiter.) Pretty women always have another ship waiting for them to jump to should they need, men don't, if your ships going down (a metaphor for your life) you have to go down with it, you can't simply go and latch onto someone elses life and have every taken care of for you.

Here's where karma slaps bitches in the face, now you're in your early 30's, being the appreciating asset you are, a lot of the hot chicks who are 18-25 want to bang you. You get to pick who you fuck and for the first time in your life, you're incredibly desirable to a huge spectrum of women. Women as young as 18 and old as 40 want a piece of the prime real estate which is a high value man in his early 30's/late 20's.

Men are appreciating assets, they get more attractive with age assuming their power and resources increase.

Women are depreciating assets, they get less attractive with age as their fertility and looks fade. Sorry ladies, but men aren't turned on by your huge social circles or career the same way you find that attractive in men. Different attraction switches.

Women don't love you, they love the power you have. A powerless man = an unattractive man.

Love is one-sided, loving a woman as a man is like being a parent that loves it's child. You will have love reciprocated to you, BUT you sacrifice more, more is required of you, she will never love you in the same type of way that you love her. Which is why, if you don't dominate (Read: lead, not abuse) in the relationship, you will lose, the relationship is doomed to failure. Women cannot lead relationships and be happy about the fact. In fact they will lead said relationship to destruction. They're terrible leaders (too emotional/logic grounded in emotion not objectivity/facts.) Get used to leading women.

Peace and good luck to everyone beginning their journeys of self improvement. See ya on the other side.

throwwhatthere · 2013-12-12T16:59:42+00:00

I think this post oversimplifies and unnecessarily makes us look hostile to those questioning. I am not angry at a bluepiller grasping for knowledge. The better title would have been, returning to Matrix quotes for inspiration:

"But I can only show you the door. You're the one that has to walk through it."

-Anteros- · 2013-12-12T14:24:11+00:00

I think we can help. See here for a start.

semigod__ · 2013-12-12T15:43:15+00:00

sounds like seddit.

trp is about theory. why some things work. why some things dont.

why, no matter what you do - she will never love you like you hope she would.

2013-12-12T14:19:33+00:00

Also, women if you want to know how to get guys head on over to /r/RedPillWomen

who_whom · 2013-12-12T16:56:53+00:00

Fake it until you become it.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-12-12T19:03:15+00:00

A great place to start understanding RP is http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/

2013-12-12T22:48:30+00:00

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Gstreetshit · 2013-12-12T20:32:26+00:00

What is this schedule you speak of at r/becomeaman?

xabl0 · 2013-12-12T23:06:10+00:00

I think there is plenty of room to help each other. Even Neo had guidance after he took the red pill.

2013-12-13T06:15:43+00:00

Now spread your wings and fly...

puaSenator · 2013-12-13T06:43:26+00:00

What I hate most is seeing the same basic questions being asked over and over again. An overwhelming majority of these questions could be easily answered if they even took an hour of their time to read the sidebar shit.

What it tells me is that you aren't that serious when you are asking these basic questions. It shows me that you are just casually stopping through and hoping for a magic answer to your problem. If you can't pay me the respect of spending some time catching up on the basics, then I'm not going to pay you the respect of wasting my time answering you.

HeadingRed · 2013-12-13T16:17:16+00:00

Spot on- it's about making yourself better. There is no "pill"- you just need to suck it up and take ownership of your life, mistakes and choices.

No matter if you are a 20's guys looking to establish yourself and meet women or in your 50's and want to have a better LTR\marriage, the common component here is you. Don't get hung up on posts here that don't seem to apply to you- did you expect every guy here to have the same needs and problems as you do?

Assess you weak areas. Think hard about what you want. Find the tools to make that happen. Rinse, repeat if necessary.

LasherDeviance · 2013-12-12T16:58:40+00:00

This should be stickied as a first read for noobs.

GayLubeOil · 2013-12-12T17:31:04+00:00

Asking the internet for help is the mark of the beta because it shows a lack of trustworthy friends and that you dont believe in yourself

seanjohn12117 · 2013-12-12T23:43:47+00:00

This is kinda bullshit, yes this sub can help you. You have to want to help yourself but what would be the point of this sub if no one learned anything

Title	We can't help you
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	117
Comments	37
Date	December 12, 2013 2:13 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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