I'm making this as a post for the likely flood of new people that will come asking the same stuff.

We cannot help you. You have to help yourself. We know you are looking for answers and that you might not like what you find. Trp truth is hard. Ultimately each of us is responsible for our success. You want a girl you have to earn one. Being a nice guy doesn't work. You need to buff up and learn some game. Get some confidence, learn a new skill. Become a better you.

Start by reading through ALL of the sidebar if you want to learn. Re-read it until you can come to terms with everything. After you have read it and have come to grips with it determine if you want to continue. If so head on over to /r/becomeaman. Start at day 1 and follow the schedule. It will also be hard. Life is hard, here at trp we recognize and work to overcome our obstacles. Once you've read everything and done everything you'll have noticed that women are treating you differently. They will desire you instead of you desiring them.

Remember. We can't help you. You are your own master and your success will be by your own hands and yours alone.