Sluts Cannot Commit

A non-slut can commit. A non-slut can pair bond. Sluts have a much harder time committing to one man. There seem to be chicken-and-egg arguments about it. Some think sluts have preexisting, presluttiness mental issues which these women act out with sexual conduct, and it's those mental issues which cause them not to pair bond. Some think that the constant sex messes with their minds and causes personality disorders (probably because of repeated rejection, disappointment from losing high value men, etc.). Some think they just cannot bond to or commit to the low value men they have to settle for because those men aren't sexually attractive. I don't know. Whatever it is, sluts don't seem to be able to bond to the men who commit to them.

Sluts Disassociate and Decouple Sex From Love, Marriage, and Commitment

Nonsluts seem to have a healthy integration and understanding of the role sex plays in a relationship, regardless of that relationship's duration. Sluts have devalued, jaded, coarsened and cynical attitudes toward love, sex and marriage. A slut just doesn't put a lot of value on long term commitments to men. Why? I don't know. Maybe because she can't keep a man and drives them away because she's a bitch. Maybe it's because she just likes fucking and doesn't want commitment for an extended period of time. Maybe it's because she learns she has a lot of sexual power and decides to use it to have some fun.

Whatever else happens, sluts learn how to disassociate sex from love, commitment and marriage. Sex just isn't all that meaningful, or special, or important to a slut, because she can get lots of it anytime she wants, from pretty much whoever she wants. Or maybe she had to learn to separate sex from love because she cared about attractive men who used her, and her love for those men was punished with abuse and loss and separation. In any event, she's learned how to steel herself against loss, pain, regret, remorse and disappointment by separating sex from love and commitment. So that low value man's commitment, and his wanting sex from her in exchange for his commitment, is viewed by a slut with disdain, disillusionment, and apathy. This could be part defense mechanism and part lack of sexual attraction.

Sluts Just Aren't Pleasant People

This isn't always the case, but it is sometimes. Sluts aren't very nice people. Some of them are mean and bitchy. I think this is in part a result of attractive men being mean assholes to them, causing her to learn how to defend herself by being a mean bitch. Some sluts are just mean, selfish, and bitchy by nature, which likely causes them to gravitate to assholes. I think a big part of this is that women fucking like men causes them to adopt masculine personality traits: Brashness, boldness, risk-taking, arrogance, shit-talking, aggressiveness, and combativeness.

So your average slut has been used quite a few times and has been played by players and cads quite a few times. As a result the slut learns how to use men, if for no other reason to avoid being used by men.

By contrast, nonsluts seem to be more pleasant to be around, more feminine (or at least less masculine), and more agreeable.

Many Sluts Lack Domestic Skills

Nonsluts understand that for commitment or long term relationships, they must bring much more than their bodies to the table. They tend to learn domestic skills and sell themselves as true partners to men.

Most sluts I've met have few to no domestic skills. They've never really learned self-sufficiency because they didn't have to for whatever reason. Many are slobs. They are well put together personally, but live in shitholes. They don't pick up after themselves. They don't cook or clean. Many never learn how to, having gotten by for years on their looks and hotness. They don't know how to budget. Their personal finances are a mess. They can hold a job but they tend to waste money and so they never seem to have enough to live on. They have tons of debt. They live on daddy's money, boyfriends' money or ex husband's money.