I'm new to the subreddit (not the Red Pill) so please excuse if this post is a bit off topic from what regularly gets written here

I was looking through the recent incel post and came across a comment basically implying that theres no shortage of sex. You could try prostitution, which is not a particularly hard business to come by (online, certain street corners that everyone knows about). The problem with virgins/incels/whatfuckingever isn't that they don't have access to sex (necessarily), but the barriers that are holding them back.

You haven't picked up a girl yet because you're too afraid to talk to one at the bar

You haven't hired a prostitute because you're too scared of the risk

Girls aren't interested in you because you haven't developed emotionally/physically/mentally enough to have an authentic personality, personal goals, BASIC FUCKING HYGIENE, or a sense of humor.

The point is, regardless of whether you have sex or not, these problems are still going to linger. Its not like shyness, social phobia, cowardice, being a bore, being unfunny are not going to hinder other aspects of your life. It also creeps girls the hell out when you place them on a pedestal and basically make them the reason you aren't depressed, suicidal, apathetic, obsessed on archaic concepts like virginity. Thats a huge responsibility that no one wants, especially some chick who could be swimming in alpha dick instead of wasting her time on your pathetic incel self. So no, don't get down on yourself because you're a virgin. But also, don't wear it like a badge of honor, because you didn't really fucking accomplish anything. Sex is just another part of the game. Let it motivate you to accomplish other goals that eventually help you get not only a girl that you deserve, but one that deserves you. The only way you're gonna beat the game (get the girl), is if you actually pick the damn control up and make an effort.