This thread is not about sex, I repeat, this thread is not about sex. Social life is not exclusively about pussy, I repeat, social life is not exclusively about pussy or getting laid!

Moving on!

As people, we're social creatures but for a lot of us on the red pill, things didn't go as according to plan in our youth. Unlike a high SMV girl in her teens, we didn't have our large group of friends, get called to enjoy a lot of events with them, or enjoy the social experiences of our time. I am not talking about sex here at all, that was icing on the cake, I am talking about having a social life (big difference guys).

Having friends to kick the shit with, enjoy a laugh with, maybe share some life experiences with, go to events with, post group selfies with, and truly feel like you're a part of something.

I strongly believe that for most guys, this can take life to a whole new level. A lot of high SMV people growing up had this belonging to a tribe whether it was Chad and his crew or the hot girl and her friends. I found that in my school days, what separated Chads from losers was that Chads always had a group of friends to be around. Similarly, hot girls always had a group of friends (whether fake or real) to be a part of and share life experiences with.

After a lot of us have made the money, raised our SMV, became better looking, and maybe even slept with a few randoms; the feeling starts to kick in. The feeling of being an outcast, not belonging, being left out, and just kinda lacking that sense of being a part of something. A lot of us came to the red pill in order to find other like-minded men to share our experiences and life with as well as seek advice from, especially when society lied to us this whole time. Now despite what some on TRP might say, the feeling of loneliness in no ways makes you "alpha" and loneliness isn't some state of mind where you can have conversations with yourself or a lonely "life purpose" in order to take your mind off of it.

Whether we like to admit it or not, and most on the red pill don't due to some wannabe alpha complex, a lot of what we do is to raise our standing in society which is determined by how others view us. We don't define our SMV or status, many around us do. Generally speaking, higher status and higher SMV people belong to a crowd and are usually the respected people in that crowd which also consists of a lot of other higher SMV people.

Eventually, after all has been said and done or likely even while it is being said and done, men have to find their tribe or group to belong to. I don't mean this in terms of just power and SMV, I mean for their own well being. There is not a more powerful and fulfilling feeling on this planet (okay some exceptions may exist) in knowing that you are a part of a community and have that community behind you, that sort of a team.

Unfortunately after 30 when so many of our friends from the past, if we have them, get married things start to look bleak. So I have some ideas on how men past the age of 30 might be able to find a group to truly belong to as well as some positive hope in the end, a huge maybe.

1 - Free Masons and others like them.

They're like the real world version of fraternities but I am guessing a lot more mature so none of the partying, drinking, and meeting random women like you would have through a college frat. Eitherways, it is a good way to find other guys to connect with.

2 - Shared social hobbies.

Improv and who knows what, there has to be others like it. Group sports from my experience are competitive and you aren't really friends with guys after that as much. I also find that a lot of group sports have competitive guys on your team who are interested in the sport but not really in regards to making friends with you. I had a lot of success by finding a side gig in the service industry.

3 - Volunteering for causes you're curious about.

The list is long and it can go on and on for this but there are a lot of causes and organizations for those causes to be curious about, not sure if it is really a good idea though.

4 - Get an LTR.

Seriously, it is so much easier to make friends when you're in a relationship, especially if she is cute. You just meet so many of her friends and maybe guys in their groups and then realize you can be friends with them as well, some of those may last. Once again, like number 3, this is a hail mary pass but not as much of a hail mary pass as number 5 will be.

5 - Cross your fingers and hope that spread of the red pill in society makes this a non-issue!

Less people getting married, less people having kids, people taking longer to grow up, perhaps this means good news to guys past the age of 30!

More friends to be made who are in similar circumstances, a lot of fun experiences that were relegated to youth can now pour over on to adulthood, and maybe adulthood doesn't have to mean nagging wife + mortgage + kid that hates your guts. Perhaps these times usher in a new golden age where a man past the age of 30 doesn't have to be married to find his tribe and might find it quite easily.