Why we should NOT be unplugging our brothers

Battle-Scars · 2017-04-11T04:06:19+00:00

I spout RP truths to my friends often but I never mention TRP. The only way I frame it is "in my experience" frames. Sometimes I see the lightbulb go on and we have discussions over time, but I just drop a single thought in their head and let it germinate. I have given out two copies of Rational Male, one was returned unread and the other thanked me after he read it.

Don't know why you think this is a ban able post, its actually basic TRP knowledge.

Blackbull_ · 2017-04-11T14:21:57+00:00

Not help my son become a man??

Right.

Merwebb · 2017-04-11T05:37:20+00:00

Yeah its crazy.

One of my best friends told me that im just stuck in my own head for the kind of ideas i have regarding women and life in general, and i just say stuff that slips away, not the whole deal.

I told that i wont be buying women drinks in bars, that that shit wont get you anywhere and its not an indication of anything. Cue instant anger.

I've learned to keep my beliefs to myself. No need to rustle jimmies constantly

Z33ger · 2017-04-11T19:04:52+00:00

I would like to take this opportunity to remind my fellow terp tards that most of us would not be here if it wasn't for the bold motherfuckers who put their real world reputations on the line by proliferating the red pill

They easily could have just stayed within the underground pua communities and kept all of this knowledge to themselves but they didn't because they recognized ithe value of helping unplug those who ware willing to listen...now look we have so many smart motherfuckas sharing field reports and insights it's a spectacle of the modern age

At the end of the day obviously that have to choose to take the red pill but that's because they are Neo and the more experienced guys are Morpheus offering either pill in other words there is power in elucidating the matrix of choice but one is powerless to choose for others

As an aside note I've helped unplug manymany friends inadvertently by demonstrating superior frame and leadership to the point where they mimic my behavior in spite of their own blue pill beliefs values and attitudes, so think about how ur influence and presence affects others because it does and you might not be aware of it

SpaceKapitan · 2017-04-11T17:29:14+00:00

You changed your mind pretty quick from your last post. Or are you running some sort of test? Because this part here ->

No matter who the man is, whether you bled with on the pitch, served with him in battle or knew him since birth, he is not worth your effort. He must make a mistake of years or sometimes decades to come to the truth, there is no other way.

Sounds overly dramatic to the point where it sounds like your trying to create a hyperbole to use against TRP.

Ok now that I reread every paragraph of your post I realise that is what your are doing.

Aaronindhouse · 2017-04-11T07:55:08+00:00

The best way to know if they can be saved is to vet. Drop crumbs here and there and see what they think.

I found the red pill on my own. It was pretty easy for me to swallow. Deep down I knew lots of the RP truths. The hard part is learning to externalize it. A lifetime of Blue pill behavior has to be overwritten.

It's too definitive to say that you shouldn't unplug other guys. That they have to find it on their own. There are some ready and some that aren't. You can't know for sure until you give them the choice. I've said this in a similar thread and I'll say it again, we are all we have. If you can save some friends, then try. Actions speak louder than words. Show them that your way works.

Hillarysdilddo_2016 · 2017-04-11T15:04:54+00:00

Can't wait for a mod to ban this idiot.

Posts A.

Next day.

Posts not A.

3ncryption · 2017-04-11T14:55:23+00:00

Read first as... science, business and StarCraft. Awesome

[deleted] · 2017-04-11T06:37:43+00:00

There are so many sex or dating things one this website. I originally thought it was only conspiracy theories.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-04-11T17:10:19+00:00

The Trivium Method

Gather as many dots of information as possible. Don't allow anyone to exclude any dots.
Use your instincts to understand how the dots are connected. Resist peer pressure.
Share your wisdom with others.

If someone is Blue Pill they permit:

Censorship which is the exclusion of dots.
Political Correctness which is peer pressure to interpret a certain way.

A man can never have wisdom (Red Pill) if he fails in steps one and two.

We can try to spread wisdom, but if they block it at the lower levels it will never break through.

Docbear64 · 2017-04-11T06:55:09+00:00

It's a null point just like in the other topic I said that you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved .

Men who start asking the right questions and become " purple" so to speak are people I'd consider sharing theory with otherwise it's a fucking waste of time .

It's rich when men who couldn't beg a woman to go on a date with them explain to you how to ACTUALLY treat women and be a good respectable man .

Some of us need to learn by getting burned.

lvl99jacked · 2017-04-11T06:57:33+00:00

I'm learning to comb people... Some people, friends, family, whoever are not ready.

A few years back I asked someone I worked with, "Read anything good lately?" He replied with some pity story. I knew from that moment on he was lost.

Inaction is action. If they choose to live in the dark, they will get what they deserve.

Never stop lifting. Never stop reading. My mind went soft and my eyes went dull once, and I am lucky to be where I am today. I work like a frantic to carve out new neural pathways, to use new information to gain an advantage and to plan and re-plan accordingly.

sbudbud · 2017-04-11T13:37:55+00:00

Saw my friend get shit on by his girlfriend HARD, red flags everywhere. Had a heart to heart where he admitted his GF does this on purpose to make him feel bad ( her dread game is on point, at least for him). The next day I go visit him and found out he told her everything we talked about and literally acted as though the night before didn't happen.

He was so uncofortable/shocked with the thought of TRP being true he actually asked his GF to confirm it. GF said its all bullshit so being the submissive in the relationship that is his stance now.

You can lead a horse to water....

[deleted] · 2017-04-11T15:35:35+00:00

I generally agree with you. I have a philosophy that the best teacher is personal experience. Not even observing others' mistakes. In order to integrate a lesson, you must be presented the data/stimulus, but more importantly you need the emotional experience to digest it. It's like if you're a therapist, your client must be given a corrective emotional experience through his or her relationship with you, that for example, you won't judge them or control them the way others have in the past when they opened up and made themselves vulnerable. Without the emotional impact to go with it, lessons aren't often internalized.

I think the default for men in today's society (even in the "patriarchal" times) was for men to defend women. They automatically pedestalize them as the "fairer sex". In Western societies, thus, most men are blue pill, and blue pill is hard to shake. Even I, who have gone through a radical red pill transformation over the last two years, still have pangs of blue pill thinking. It's hard to unplug and stay unplugged. Every bit of you will fight it. When you were blue pill and had a girlfriend, and the red pill mentality guys made comments, you'd get defensive.

Blue pill is something that is only lost when the individual goes through a fundamentally shaking experience that exposes their core beliefs and the unconscious stuff that results in their blue pill behavior and susceptibility to blue pill thinking. They then read red pill stuff and it makes sense, and it hurts. Because the raw emotion is exposed as a result of the recent traumatic experience. You're not doing God's work trying to convert people and most people will not be open to it. Some will even turn against you.

One of my good friends is extremely blue pill and is being controlled by his low SMV girlfriend. I surmise she will eventually dump him or cheat on him because he's really basically putty in her hands. She doesn't want me near him because I've become pretty red pill over the past year. She also is isolating him from most of his single male friends. He gets defensive every now and then when I say something red pillish. In front of his girlfriend, to impress her, he goes on these feminist diatribes, and as long as I've known him, he's been a die hard conservative.

Let them fall, let them scream and cry. Then come in and give them a red-pill book like Rational Male or NMMNG. Don't push it on them. Tell them it helped you understand things and get over the loss, and made you a better man. Then let them SEE the new you, that cares for and loves himself, that is confident and enjoying life, and is not controlled by women or his desire for them.

MuaddibinRVA · 2017-04-11T17:21:55+00:00

Good stuff dude. I think we all need this reminder when we try to help out a brotha.

I was out with my friends last night and a dude who I think was trying to be RP was trying to hook up with one of da girls. Dude was absolutely terrible. He was a huge dick, not funny, awkward, trying to start fights, letting himself get owned and beat the fuck out in conversation. It was like a kid went straight from the playground into sexual maturity or he was just starting out here.

I honestly wanted to go up and ask him if he'd bothered to read the sidebar, but decided there was no reason to invest in him.

fakefalse · 2017-04-11T18:43:56+00:00

I'll give my opinion to a close friend, if I feel it will help him grow so that he's more fun to be around, or at least to shut him up about being in the dog house again.

Otherwise, the more I appear to be "normal" to everyone around me, the less danger I'm in.

Plus, as sad as it is to see men and boys losing their masculin ways, it offers a higher chance for my boy to achieve the upper 20% and be a king in his own right.

bznj · 2017-04-11T18:45:54+00:00

even the men who are naturally close to TRP, but never really read it or spent time doing so, they can't be unplugged

I've seen that first hand last week. I would consider myself fully careless for the female emotions and feelings and just have my own fun. Works very well. My friend has fucked twice as many women as I've done, close to 150 even. That's because his game is very good and direct, borderline aggressive.

However when he runs into a high level psycho woman he'll get emotional. I've been trying to get him to stop, dropping a bit of TRP theories. He's burning bridges as we speak. Kinda fucked up.

I_Need_More_Space_ · 2017-04-11T19:27:48+00:00

Make a judgement call on the intelligence of the person in question. Not everyone can be RP. Some people just don't have the independent thought to handle such truths.

I was RP before I knew RP existed. My ideas had just never been put so eloquently in one place. The sidebar confirmed many of my core ideals.

I became RP by experience, observation, and southern shaming if you were ever pussy whipped by a gal.

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Koryphae_ · 2017-04-11T07:40:33+00:00

I am sorry but this made absolutely no sense apart from the title of post.

RedPillgrim · 2017-04-11T21:10:42+00:00

I remember when I first discovered TRP. I used to click 'random' to see a sub if never seen before. Came upon TRP and everything they said clicked with my experience with women. Especially about how the less effort you put in, the more effort they do (if your smv is perceived as higher). I discovered I already had a little RP in me and the rest is history.

Title	Why we should NOT be unplugging our brothers
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Upvotes	37
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Date	April 11, 2017 3:24 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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