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[–]PheromoneVoid13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
I've been getting tons of attention from other women on social media and real life. It's as if me being in a relationship boosted my SMV and now women want me (I'm a slightly above average looking guy, btw)
Take advantage of it and be sure to employ dread.
is it possible that women secret hate each other and are trying to one up each other in the sexual marketplace.
Hate? Depends on the level of bitchiness.
Compete? Absolutely. No different than men, though I'd say men have a lot easier time competing amongst themselves for women than vice versa.
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[–]butsomeare 12 points13 points14 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Men seem more apt to compete by outdoing each other, while women compete more by dragging each other back down.
[–]PheromoneVoid13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you're excluding betas, that is. Beta men employ female tactics and try dragging the alpha down.
[–]Hoodwink 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Beta's don't do that. They don't compete or sabotage as long as it's conventional and you treat them well.
It breaks down if you start seeing more than one chick.
[–]aazav 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Beta's
Betas*
You don't put an apostrophe on a plural.
[–]Libertarian_Gamer 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
lol will doo, but I don't want to cheat so I'll wait until this relationship goes sour
[–]1Sir_Distic 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dread isn't cheating. It's letting her know you have other options if she leaves you.
[–]raisins3142 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Is there a way to employ dread without being a dick?
I had an ex that employed dread by flirting with men in front of me, getting them interested and then leaving my side to speak with them at length while acting like I was not in the room. I dumped her for this. But she was getting validation and also dreading me/controlling me. She also left all her social media notifications on so that her phone was constantly buzzing and she never shared any of it and acted purposefully secretive.
I won't ever do that because it crosses a boundary and I felt socially disrespected by her. If I ever do get in another LTR (probably won't), then I won't do that. I can't be a dick to someone I care about.
Is it enough to be in great shape, successful, and getting attention but being very casual/friendly/not flirty or implying that you are have communications behind someone's back?
[–]Red_SoloCup 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep! I do it all the time with mine and it not only makes her insecure about losing me, it makes her want to try harder to impress me. She just recently started tanning nude, which she (says, and i'm inclined to believe her) shes never done before. She's also started eating better, drinking less, etc etc.
All you gotta do is get attention from other girls. Walk around without a shirt on if you've got a good body and her roommates will tell her that you're hot. Or she'll catch strangers checking you out. Post awesome pictures on social media, be very open with information about past hookups (they hate that they love that shit), stuff like that. As a college kid (and a college athlete for the first half of school) I hang out with an absolutely savage group of guys that have some fantastic hook up stories. If you have a group of guy friends that are similar, when you hang out with them with your LTR she'll hear some of those stories. Even if you never tell her any of your own, she'll assume that you have similar ones. This one is hugely effective on my LTR. She gets visibly uncomfortable when I tell her stories about what my buddies have gotten into recently.
[–]Thenextprince -3 points-2 points-1 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's not how it is with me and my bros. Whoever gets a bitch gets her, we don't compete. And we always share bitches if we can, we aren't possessive. They loving the crewwww.
[–]PheromoneVoid1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I meant competition as it exists within the entirety of the marketplace, not within pockets.
but nigga you do what you guys do
[–]Thenextprince 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh okay, true. Yeah men as a whole are competitive too. Which is sad. I wish more men had abundance mentality and just shared bitches around like my bros do. All the possessiveness and mate guarding with plates is retarded. Even though she's probably cheating on them, I understand how dudes wouldn't want to share their LTRs. But plates?
[–]Thenextprince 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Women hate each other and do not really form real friendships, themselves are all they care about. Take two girl best friends and put a rich aloha between them and they'll hate each other. Women have no loyalty but to themselves, so they have no way of making real friendships. They move up by dragging each other down.
[–]raisins3142 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I have a special fondness of talking to women that are not around other women and steering the conversation so that they readily admit that women are bitches and that male friends treat each other much better. I do this in a nonconfrontational way, like they mention something about how men are more likely to have lifelong friendships and I'll ask an innocent question like "well, why do you think that is the case?" Then I sit back and listen.
It is funny that they never apply this to themselves though. They like to say it as if they are different, when they really aren't.
It is possible that some women that don't have female friends are the type that see through female behavior and are above it, but for the most part the ones without female friends are the worst of the worst and are the drama centers/man stealers/attention whores that they act as though they do not like.
[–]Thenextprince 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I do the same thing. When they ask me why I don't do female friends, i say "cause girls fucking hate each other and make terrible friends to each other, why would they be any different with me? Besides, if she's cute I wanna smash." They always laugh or agree with me etc . And yeah women with all malefriends are bigger attention whores than regular women.
[–]raisins3142 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll add one thing. Added on to men getting stuff done and elevating all men by cooperation (positive sum game, versus the female zero sum game of dividing up what men produce).......and so having such things as honor and integrity as real forces.....we also have mutually assured destruction.
That friend of mine that weights 30 pounds less than me? I screw his girlfriend and he finds out....even if I'm bigger than him he can still possibly kick my butt (even weaker men are pretty strong, strong enough to knock me out with a right cross I don't see) or just kill me. This keeps men in check with each other. Women don't feel this from men or each other. I've been physically assaulted by women several times for no reason and the look on their face was of the glee that comes from "what you gonna do about it?"...the answer was "nothing".
[–]sir_wankalot_here 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can two men share a woman and be friends ? Can two women share a man and be friends ? We are assuming it is an LTR
[–]misterbadattitude 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
bros before hoes, if you are a good friend then you would not fuck his girlfriend/woman even when given the opportunities.
One of my best friends had 2 LTR girlfriends who were flirting with me and even IOI/kino. If you have got some dignity and respect for your friend then you wouldn't want to stab him in the back. Loyal friends, that you can count on 1 hand are there probably for decades to come. Bitches they come and go.
[–]itsawomensworld2 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Tons of real world examples of men doing this Tony hawk, Eric Clapton. But I do agree, in the sense I wouldn't date any of my friends former LTRs
[–]1Entropy-7 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's as if me being in a relationship boosted my SMV
There is no real "as if": having a girl on your arm who has a comparable or higher SMV than your own will boost your perceived value among women with the same or lower SMV than the girl.
If you are a 7 and have a 6, all the other 6s will find you more attractive. Better yet, if you have an 8, all the 8s will take a second look at you whereas they wouldn't if you were alone.
There is the side affect in your attitude because being in a relationship builds your confidence and you are more IDGAF when dealing with other women because you know you can get laid by your GF whenever.
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women Hate Each Other
I have older sisters. It's like having and advanced course in "Machiavelli meets Medici".
[–]RP_Vergil 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women don't hate each other. They despise the surface value of any woman better than themselves. Some may say they respect other females portrayed in some publication or maybe one of their relatives, but that's only an act where they think they have higher value to achieve.
Man look at each other in terms of potential the other Man has. Hence why a Man doesn't get jealous and start to plot ways on pulling the other party down (Minus Politics, because your aim is to look better than another person sharing the same limelight as you.)
A confident person knows he has the potential to become as great as the person whom has a value higher than him. Hence he build himself up and move into a field where he know he can excel. Woman can't, they despise another with higher surface value than she has or worse, a lower quality woman whom in her eyes doesn't deserve what she has compared to herself.
Beta Males are just Man operating using a Woman's method of living as stated above. That's why they will forever be unhappy without realizing their own potential.
[–]Steve_Wiener 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think it's that they are actively trying to sabotage your girlfriend. I think it's that that are completely shallow, vain, mentally invalid children, and when they see something they can't have they want it, even if it was the exact same when they could have it before.
[–]ransay3277 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No woman wants a man who is not wanted by other women. This is a basic AWALT concept such as hypergamy.
[–]So-Done-With-Life 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah my gf apparently tells everybody about me. It's nothing to do with me, it's to do with her. "Look at meee I have this awesome bf suck shit hahaahhaha"
[–]destinyaltboy 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go to any Victoria's Secret store, if they still exist, and buy bras for your girl. You'll be massively hit on.
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[–]destinyaltboy 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No dude. I've gotten numbers almost every time. I can tell the difference.
[–]ElGuapoMiguel 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It did boost your SMV, it is called preselection.
[–]studiov34 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women just can't keep their hands off slightly above average looking men who love YouTube.
[–]hailhailhailandkill 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not being considered the best (if not, something special) drives them nuts.
Ever observed how they behave when a higher SMV girl joins the scene? Another female is being praised in front of her? Their nitpicks (nose, body etc) while talking about someone beautiful?
They overestimate themselves and can't stand falling behind when the illusion is shattered.
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