90k likes btw.

iceyH0ts0up · 2020-04-23T12:49:35+00:00

“I’m a queen, but like to be treated like a pleb whore more.”

Jabaggs · 2020-04-23T13:25:56+00:00

And when men say women are attracted to assholes all the women and white knights mouths turns into horses and they start attacking you saying that you are wrong lmao

belongsinagarbagecan · 2020-04-23T12:59:07+00:00

Simps are the male version of sluts.

Seriously, reverse the genders and replace validation with sex.

* I'm not trying to bash any specific guys out there. I'm just trying to draw the comparison.

MRMRising · 2020-04-23T12:47:01+00:00

Rollo Tomassi was right.

Jabaggs · 2020-04-23T13:27:39+00:00

90k likes when a women says it but if a man were to say it guess what would happen?

evergreen35 · 2020-04-23T13:06:26+00:00

Remember this Gentlemen:

Women are Pretty on the outside, and Trash on the inside.

She is a typical example of how the idiot female brain works, and she is not even pretty. The vast majority of Women think like this.

Celticpenguin85 · 2020-04-23T13:19:28+00:00

Straight from the whorse's mouth.

DickieDawkins · 2020-04-23T14:17:32+00:00

She seems self aware by that. Doesn't make her better but at least she knows what she's doing

StingRayFins · 2020-04-23T15:51:14+00:00

Ah, the classic "turn an Alpha into a Beta" mind game. Have him change for her bullshit. Once he changes she instantly loses interest and will find the next "bad" guy to change.

This has been observed time and time again. Nothing new.

ThaHentaiConnoisseur · 2020-04-23T13:48:07+00:00

And women think us men who say this must be a ViRgIN InCeL lOsEr. This mountain troll just said what we've been saying all along. What now ladies? 90K likes, fml. Simps trying to get a crumb and other low SMV women agreeing with her.

neckrophiliac · 2020-04-23T17:07:51+00:00

God how did women evolve such stupid levels of stupid..

submit3r · 2020-04-23T18:43:23+00:00

Man wanting to just genuinely connect with someone and when you have so much love to give and it’s literally the polar opposite of what creates attraction sucks.

Honest_Solution · 2020-04-23T13:21:37+00:00

Worlds longest run-on sentence. I bet her high school English teacher is proud.

otakuzod · 2020-04-23T15:28:54+00:00

The 1000 cock stare is STRONG with this one.

mustangfrank · 2020-04-23T14:01:47+00:00

I cannot believe this woman was so stupid to write that she like jerks because they are jerks

Just like the site says.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a man's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of thinking he was entitled to sex just for being nice.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys he was a "NiceGuy™" unworthy of dating, but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout he's a "real man" who treats her with respect.

novanative_ · 2020-04-23T13:54:21+00:00

Love this because it shows men 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I’d rather get the story first and avoid than actually wasting time or energy on her. Let her and her stupidity reap and sow for the next decade til she has her ultimate date with the wall 😂

Obediah_Stane · 2020-04-23T17:15:12+00:00

When a woman tells you the truth like in this case, believe her.

downwardlyspiraling · 2020-04-23T23:23:23+00:00

It’s ok. In 10 to 15 years nobody will give her any validation at all.

houseoftolstoy · 2020-04-24T03:45:10+00:00

She is not wrong that giving out validation unconditionally is going to make a man look unattractive, but that does not mean she has to go for the jerkiest of men instead. No one forced her to go for that kind of guy, and no one is surprised if she ends up unhappy as a result of her choices.

BluepillProfessor · 2020-04-23T16:23:50+00:00

I am having a Pink Floyd flashback!

Button your lip and don't let the shield slip

Seek a fresh grip on your bullet proof mask

And if they try to break down your disguise with their questions

You can hide hide hide

Behind paranoid eyes

You put on your brave face and slip over the road for a jar

Fixing your grin as you casually lean on the bar

Laughing too loud at the rest of the world

With the boys in the crowd

You can hide hide hide

Behind petrified eyes

You believed in their stories of fame fortune and glory

Now you're lost in a haze of alcohol soft middle age

The pie in the sky turned out to be miles too high

And you hide hide hide

Behind brown and mild eyes

jrpark05 · 2020-04-24T05:47:20+00:00

LMAO, she doesn't consider that the asshole that won't give her validation is manipulating her in the process. Though she doesn't consider it, she loves it.

Proof once again that women, when given the choice, do not want to exercise agency.

Parking-Meeting · 2020-04-23T18:17:50+00:00

She right tho

2020-04-23T17:10:42+00:00

when in doubt, be an asshole - Roissy In DC

PlainTundra · 2020-04-23T16:52:34+00:00

Moments of clarity.

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2020-04-23T19:43:05+00:00

Going off on a tangent that was spurred by u/bluepilledprofessor 's use of Pink Floyd....

Pink Floyd's Money sprang to mind.

Replace the word "Validation" in her profile/post with "MONEY" and things might read a little more clear. While those with some game probably know that you don't necessarily need money, there are some that still need to understand that just like a man's currency is respect...a woman's currency is validation. If she has too much then she is complacent, not enough then she will work to gain it.

BlacqueShinobi · 2020-04-23T19:56:24+00:00

Imagine if she thought the same thing about sex.

2020-04-23T16:04:00+00:00

So really... she actually doesn't know the reason why she does what she does.

dwc151 · 2020-04-23T17:33:41+00:00

At least she recognizes her hypergamy, even if she doesn't know that's what it is.

PlsHulpMeh · 2020-04-23T20:27:24+00:00

I know not all women are like this, but it gets tiring when it’s all you see

lethargic_apathy · 2020-04-24T03:34:37+00:00

What’s funny is that when guys point this out, others will raise hell, saying it’s not true and that they just want a genuinely nice person and that it shouldn’t be “that hard.”

She seems to be aware of her behavior but the acknowledgment itself doesn’t make things better. I’d love to read through the comments to fuel my red pill rage

Yuuzhan83 · 2020-04-24T16:17:10+00:00

At least she gets it.

Scooned · 2020-04-24T23:41:24+00:00

Translation: Im still seeking Daddys validation cause he too left my Mom. I dont know what a real relationship is cause i didnt see one growing up.

77173 · 2020-04-23T14:25:37+00:00

Nice use of alliteration though.

unsurelife83 · 2020-04-23T19:24:13+00:00

I thought this was a tongue twister built around the word “validation”

rellik13xx · 2020-04-23T22:00:56+00:00

Thank you for the insight.

waffle_sauces · 2020-04-24T00:17:08+00:00

r/selfawarewolves

casualknowledge · 2020-04-24T00:18:35+00:00

Sounds like she understands why dudes don't want worn out holes after women hit the wall. When you use your body as a currency and the value drops to 0, what meaning does it have anymore?

Future WAATGM for sure.

Aldabruzzo · 2020-04-24T16:12:50+00:00

Don't get too down on this woman. It's not often you'll see a woman explain herself with such clarity like this one just did. She has explained one reason why women love assholes, and explained it extremely well.

This is just one reason why Chicks Dig Jerks.

WeWillAllDie666 · 2020-04-25T09:20:43+00:00

Just FYI peoples "attitude" to partners is also driven entirely by their perception or worth and perception of your value

If i offered you an interview for a job for minimum wage cleaning chicken gunk out of a hot oven, working for a shit company who hates its employees and i offered you another interview for a hedge fund manager where the company made it a principle to enjoy work and make your day as good as can be, would your conduct me the same in both interviews? of course not

assholes in dating are generally assholes because they have so many option and are in demand for other attributes (body/excitement etc), niceguys are often niceguys because they lack value in other attributes. (poor body/ugly afraid etc)

the better looking you are and the more floods of offers you get the less likely you are to be a genuine nice guy and definitely less likely to be a "nice guy", because you have a high opinion of yourself and expect the world

ThisIsWhoIAmNow71 · 2020-04-23T20:21:17+00:00

Mind=blown

Title	90k likes btw.
Author	Bombalaya
Upvotes	328
Comments	75
Date	April 23, 2020 9:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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