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Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-02-26T16:49:19+00:00

Dude.

The subreddit of origin was completely visible.

Aurelian1960 · 2022-02-26T15:58:02+00:00

External=cheated

Loud-Bottle-7879 · 2022-02-26T16:06:20+00:00

The comment about him treating her like an innocent kid hit home. With one of my exes whenever I would offer professional/work advice (that she solicited), if she didn’t like the answer then I was “condescending” and “spoke down to her”. It’s so tiring at a point lol.

shrinkshooter · 2022-02-26T16:13:37+00:00

I'll put forth a modicum of effort.

I did love him, don't get me wrong, but I don't anymore

Most of the time this reads as "I initially had a good feeling about rolling the dice with this one but now I'm doubting that my gamble will pay off," but do go on.

He treats me like I'm some innocent, naive child because I'm a woman

Ah. So you've dedicated three years to (and ostensibly "loved") what is likely to be a self-serving, me-first Chad with sociopathic tendencies who has lots of experience with other women. Note I'm not criticizing the guy here, it's just a very good guesstimation based on the little she's said so far and my knowledge of what they're attracted to (or not) and why.

it's something he cannot change because he treats all women like this

....allow me to repeat myself: So you've dedicated three years to (and ostensibly "loved") what is likely to be a self-serving, me-first Chad with sociopathic tendencies who has lots of experience with other women. I think I'm on the money here. Also you've likely seen those women lusting after him firsthand, making you want to stay with him longer. You say that this quality of his is a dealbreaker that won't ever be changed and yet you've thrown three years at this man...there are so many true things being intentionally left unsaid here.

paraphrasing: My ex-bf treated me amazing and was super supportive

Yet he's still your ex.

the relationship ended because of external reasons

Possibly...or perhaps you're lying about it because you really want people to perceive things a certain way. Perhaps your ex was super supportive and loved you to death, but you got bored and he wasn't exciting and didn't give you the tingles because he was "safe" and "everything a boyfriend should be". Only with women do you fail the exam if you pass with flying colors. You wouldn't admit any of that, had this been the case. I note that there's no mention of whether the breakup was mutual, or who dumped whom, just "external factors." Yeah, there's more here being unsaid.

I'm pretty much a sex toy in his eyes

Okay, again: three. years.

Whatever this Alphacock megachad was when you met him is exactly how he is now, he didn't change and he never will unless he wishes to. You ARE a sex toy to him, which is exactly how you were treated when he met you and you still got with him (3 YEARSSL;GHJGAHA) you're an accessory to him, and if you weren't blinded by the magical gina tingles you've have read these qualities as red flags plain as day, yet the power of magical thinking helps to drape a sparkly veil over your eyes.

Yeah, sure, you'll dump him. Hundred bucks says you put that off for a good long while and if you ever get around to it, he'll be the Chadly Dudeman he is, laughing while he says "bye" and moves on to the next. I mean this takes a bit of reading between the lines here sweetheart but you reap what you sow, and if anyone were to ever tell you "uh, the warning signs were there, you big dumddumb" you'd find ways to bluster and deny and say no they weren't, no one could have seen this train coming down the tunnel.

It's all so tiring my lads...

SpiritualEnema · 2022-02-26T16:20:53+00:00

Simple answer, she didn’t respect the previous ex-boyfriend. Monkey branched to the new boyfriend. Cheated on old guy with new guy. This is her taking “accountability” citing “external” reasons, what an idiot.

Never put the pussy on a pedestal gentleman. When she does this she isn’t actually thinking of the ex fondly. She is simply THINKING OF HERSELF fondly. Women are inherently selfish and neurotic creatures. Watch their actions, do not listen to their words, then you will know all you need to know. Put yourself first always, especially in the relationship. Although she is complaining about this guy, I doubt she actually leaves him….. Once again watch actions, don’t listen to words.

Chgralac73 · 2022-02-26T16:32:24+00:00

my exBF I dumped, was nice to me, tee hee

my BF DGAF, but i have been with him for 3 years, tee hee

TheRabbitTunnel · 2022-02-26T16:47:51+00:00

If I was more acknowledged about something, he wouldn't hesitate to ask for an opinion

This genius doesnt know the difference between "knowledgeable" and "acknowledged", yet shes ranting about how men don't take her intelligence seriously. Oh, but the one guy who did take her intelligence seriously? Yeah, she cheated on him ("the relationship ended for external reasons").

Zero self awareness.

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