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Online dating in a nutshell

moorekom

May 16, 2020

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Title	Online dating in a nutshell
Author	moorekom
Upvotes	2395
Comments	142
Date	May 16, 2020 3:32 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/gknsk8/online_dating_in_a_nutshell/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/online-dating-in-a-nutshell.664876 https://theredarchive.com/post/664876

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Damn, you said all there is to know in a few, but very complex words. The average guy's dating experience these days can be very very well summed up with the important key-phrase you mentioned that happens to be "Cluster-b Personalities".

Personally, pretty much most of the girls i dated exhibited that including the most recent one, if they weren't outright thotty and a write-off to begin with.

Women have major issues and only keep reinforcing those issues and their mental illnesses. It's like a vicious cycle of masochism and feeding into each other's misery thereby making all of them even worse off and driving away any and all men.

The shit that hit hardest was the music part you mentioned. This last girl i dated, right around the time she went nuts and decided to sabotage a healthy positive relationship we had going together started listening to the worst most repulsive music i can imagine.

Just google the song titles/lyrics that she didn't make an attempt to hide listening to and see how deep the issues went. It was all about hate hate, paranoia, self-harm, wanting to hurt the man and cheating among other shit. Oh, and funny enough a couple of her songs were about the guy putting up with her crazy shit and still "taking her back" in the end.

Fucking ridiculous.

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Even "dull" girls get a ton of suitors, the internet has ruined most women so bad with all the unsolicited admiration of desperate men that pretty much nothing will satisfy them any more.

The constant "you deserve better" attitude is ruining romantic relationships because at the slightest point where you show weakness, say no or stand up for yourself she will lose interest because she has no control over you or respect for you. And when you do satisfy them in every way possible like a princess you might be rewarded with a r/deadbedrooms (nightmare fuel warning) because you are a total pushover in her eyes. The average bloke can't win with the modern woman.

Its not a coincidence that a lot of men from all cultures and walks of life consider the perfect marriage material a slightly chubby girl that is a great lover in and out of bed. Plain girls with a decent personality and high libido are incredibly attractive to the vast majority of men.

[–]StingRayFinsJr. Hamster Analyst9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Women will get a ton of simps but no real man want to commit. A ton of SIMPs and Cucks will, though. But she don't really respect that man deep down. It's why most relationships and marriages fail. Why do you think 70-80% divorce is initiated or instigated by women? The rest get cheated on for a while and never find out. Just because a marriage never officially ended doesn't mean it's rainbows and butterflies.

It's very seldom she gets to tie down and marry the guy she truly loves.

At the same time guys have a hard time finding a caring, loyal, not slutty and promiscuous girl. Unless you just give up entirely and pump-n-dump, which a lot of guys are doing now.

But that's the thing, you're pumping and dumping easy, slutty, promiscuous, damaged girls. It ain't nothing to brag about. In 2020 a lot of girls are trying to act just like guys because they think it makes them strong and more desirable.

I think people shouldn't be bragging at all and practice humility and humbleness. But if you must brag, do so if you get to keep your money, not hoe out or SIMP out to get attention, and you land someone who is higher quality who doesn't share themselves with 20 other people.

I agree with you entirely, it's a shit show in the dating market. You either keep your standards (even realistic ones) and be lonely or lower it to ungodly levels and lose yourself.

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I believe I'm contributing to their damage if I do that, and I don't want to contribute.

I used to think this when I was 18-20 as well but then I've come to two conclusions:

(1) some guy WILL do it anyways if not you. Sometimes I think this when I think back and see all the girls I didn't "want to take advantage of" end up damaged anyways with: drug addictions, multiple kids, or with some dude she doesn't really respect. Then I feel like, "wow, if they gonna be like this anyways I could have had some fun before this all happened"

(2) Just fuck with fuck-girls. There are TONS of them. More than a dime a dozen. It's definitely okay if you want to have fun but don't do it to innocent girls who really are trying to be loyal and settle down early instead of hoeing around.

In the end it really it comes down to what you're most comfortable with. Personally if I could go back to 20 I'd just smash all of them but be clear before I do it. This way it's mutual and making sure we're both on the same page. Make sure I tell them I'm not looking for something serious and just want to have fun. It's a lot different than players who lie and lead them on to sleep with them and dump them after.

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Really!

Women don't know what they want and to the extent they do they lie about it. Asking a woman is the WORST thing you can do. Women lie. Women hamster. They say whatever they need to say to make them look good.

If the truth makes them look bad they will lie. Fact!

The reality is women LOVE bad boys who are DANGEROUS. IT makes their little quims quiver and drip fluids onto their crusty panties.

NO woman will EVER tell you this. They will lie. They will say I like nice guys. They will say I like guys who make me feel SAFE.

Ask ANY woman in all of history- your mother, your sister, whoever, what you need to do to be attractive to girls. She will tell you with one voice: Just be yourself. They know it is a lie but it is a comfortable lie. It makes them FEEL good and that is all that matters.

I am convinced that lies keep people together: Try it!

You are the most beautiful woman in the world.

You are not like the others.

I would never think of cheating on you.

Don't worry, I won't cum in your mouth.....

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