21F bombarded with thoughts on how i can stop hurting so much over what my 28M ex has done and is doing. My ex basically stole my whole personality and he is now using it on other victims. For example i am anti porn and my ex wasn't in anyway, he would post weird Facebook memes about sex and porn and porn sites and lying and then when he got with me be lied about the pornography and even went as far as to send his porn obsessed friend a link on how porn hurts people especially women, yet i was the one who sent it so i don't understand why he'd send it to his friend, especially when he wasn't even anti porn and is a predator /porn addict, he lied to me constantly, called me names, manipulated me and hurt me on absolute purpose to get a kick out of it. I'm having so much trouble getting over the hurt and it's worse now that i know there are people out there believing his lies, thinking he is a good guy, yet he totally stole my personality and morals that he doesn't have. Since we broke up he's gotten new friends who also seem like predators and porn addicts (especially anime/hentai) and I just can't stand to think how he just got away with hurting me like he did and that other women especially would be fueling his ego. I feel so stupid for sticking around for this guy and giving him attention and now even after blocking him in everything i am still struggling. Please any advice would be so grateful. X