My mom is my dependent because she has rheumatoid arthritis (so she can’t work) and she can’t speak English. She makes no income so I pay for all her expenses. I do not resent taking care of her, this woman has sacrificed so much for me and has made me the woman that I am today. I was just wondering if anybody else has been/is a caretaker for their parent(s) and can share their experiences in dating.

I’m fairly attractive and make six figures but I pretty much gave up hope about finding a HVM because of my mother (and because I’m in the military). I feel like a HVM would want to find somebody with a less complicated lifestyle. Which is fine, I would much rather make sure my mom is comfortable and enjoys the rest of her life. I was just curious about whether people have successfully found HVMs in similar situations as mine or whether I should just be resigned to a life by myself.