I'd only been seeing this guy for 4mo, so it's better to do now than later. I get that. But man it fucking sucks. And yes, it was only 4mo so who knows if he was a HVM, but there were so many green flags that I haven't gotten from other dating situations. He was so kind, generous, open, genuine, etc. But clearly, he just was not my person. He started looking for houses and wanted to move out to the exburbs and I am a through and through city person. I work abroad a lot for months to a year at a time and he is a homebody who can go days at a time without leaving his house. TBH tho, that didn't really bother me, so much as expecting that I would eventually join him out in the middle of nowhere. I know I would be miserable like that. I know I did the right thing, but it's so painful. Anyone care to share similar stories?