I (24 F) recently met this guy (25M) that I think is amazing to me. We dated for 3 months and then he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. He is in love with his bikes and rides all the time. However, he told me some things that I'm not comfortable with. He speeds on his bike which is dangerous and illegal and he vapes (also illegal) where I live. He also only told me about the vaping after we were official and I told him that he should have definitely told me about that upfront. He has since told me that he is going to quit vaping. I thought he will also quit speeding on his bike since it's so dangerous and he's already been in 2 accidents but he said he's a good rider and it's his passion so I don't think he's gonna stop. I feel very stressed on his behalf whenever he goes out. But he is very very nice to me, he plans proper dates, picks me up at my place and pays for all the dates and tells me how much he appreciates me. Is the speeding thing a very minor thing to break up over ? He doesn't do irresponsible things when I'm around. However I feel like he needs to be a bit more responsible and stop breaking the law for no reason. He also stays out drinking with his friends sometimes till 4 or 5 am and sleeps in till 4 or 5 pm (He's a flight attendant so he works odd hours).