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[–]copingwithshit3 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Or you could work on yourself?
[–]sirhallucinatesalot1 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
I already fucked up and have a “stain”. I have a mental illness, so because I am thinking of other people, I’m trying to stay away from romantic relationships. I’m only going to “work on myself” to make me happier and help other people. Doing it to impress someone romantically is futile and fake. I’m solid health and career wise. Mentally I’m happy as well. I’m just thinking ahead in terms of if I should fear the regret when I’m older. That is probably just conscientiousness combined with anxiety. I’m not asking for sympathy.
Perhaps a better question would have been “How do I prepare myself for a life without a romantic partner?”
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