I’m not “asking random strangers on the internet to make decisions for me” I’m just asking for brotherly advice here, maybe a perspective On this I haven’t realized. Or a way of thinking I’m not really seeing. Or just some man to man suggestions.

I am in an long term relationship for 6 years. We moved in together recently. The relationship is great. Sex is frequent. She is a great woman and does everything I lead her to do. I don’t really have any complaints about her.

About 6 months ago I started messing with another girl. Started as fun/flirting to keep my game good. Then nudes came in. Then kept going from there. Then we were alone and we made out. Then it went from there I figured it would be once and done deal. But The sex with this girl is fucking amazing. To the point my LTR will always have sex with me if I initiate. But I never do anymore because I just want sex from the other girl. (Still have sex with ltr like once a week) but fucking crave sex from the new girl.

Now it’s got to a point where I actually enjoy spending time with the other girl. It’s not very frequent. Once a week usually. But I’m still feeling her out. She wants to be with me but understands my situation. She has been more than cool about everything

So part of me is saying end it with my LTR but another part says why? She literally adds so much value to my life. And I’ve been with triple digits of women and haven’t found an even close match for me than her. She’s loyal. Very hard working. Cooks. Cleans. Not much drama. Submissive. Trustworthy etc. just a really really good gf.

If I were to break up with her today it would literally be for no other reason than I like sex and spending time with the new girl. Because even when I come home from a night with the new girl. I can’t even come home and act mad or start a fight like I would back in the day. There’s nothing wrong. There’s no issue and I have no problem picking back up where I left off and enjoying a good night with my ltr. It’s been 6 months and this all seems almost normal to me now. But I realize my LtR doesn’t deserve it. And cheating is seen as a piece of shit move. I’m pretty much a sociopath when it comes to women so I don’t see it as such but I understand why others do.

This is the longest ltr I’ve ever been in and I get the “honey moon stage” fades and things become different. But it hasn’t been bad at all. I might help to mention. I have cheated before and she caught me. Got upset but took me bad, it was just for sex in my eyes and I never spoke to the girl again. I honest can’t see me not ever not getting side pussy. It’s just something I like to do. But I also want a family

So if I stay with my ltr and get rid of the new girl. It’s also something I don’t really want to do. Bc like I said I truly am starting to care and like the new girl. She seems a bit more submissive andmaybe a better match for where my RP life journey is going to take me BUT it’s only been 6 months. So I obviously can’t judge everything based off that. And I’m not sure if I can trust her like I can trust my ltr.

I’m a young and dumb dude. I get im probably not doing things the way I should be but I’m asking for advice from some of you older guys who have more life experience than me on this. If I get caught I will own my shit to the fullest and deal with the consequences. Until then Is it possible to continue to swing both? If was to break up with my ltr how do I even go about it. There’s literally nothing wrong besides new fun sex with new girl is more exciting for me and I enjoy her company. Idk my heads all fogged up by this. Like I said I’ve been doing it for so long now I haven’t even stopped to think about what I’m actually doing to these two.