DEER

ParadoxThatDrivesUs · 2016-03-28T19:10:51+00:00

WISNIFG.

UEMcGill · 2016-03-29T12:47:30+00:00

While everyone has addressed the method, namely starting with STFU and moving into WISNIFG, let me remind you why we don't DEER.

Women are communicators of emotion, not content. So while you sit there and parse out the logic of the decision you made, all she hears is "I'm not comfortable with my argument. I'm trying to explain it to you because I don't feel like I made the right decision." In other words she hears a lack of confidence in what you are saying, not the facts. So what ever feeling or emotion she has in her mind is now justified because you are DEER'ing. She thinks, "AHA! I'm right because he's dancing around words."

Scurvemuch · 2016-03-28T19:25:37+00:00

Look up JADE as well

Title	DEER
Author	Stoptalkingplease64
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	March 28, 2016 6:59 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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