Girlfriend mode

SampsonBrass · 2017-01-21T18:46:02+00:00

Women narrate. It's what they do. They narrate your life and theirs. Living with a woman is like having a radio playing in the background at all times. That's one of the things that makes living with them so enjoyable. Most of the time.

Your getting laid has nothing to do with the constancy of her narration and everything to do with how she feels about the audience. That's you by the way.

You really only need to listen when you hear the emergency broadcast signal. Get your shit together and keep it there and the radio will play just the kind of music you like. Most of the time. If not, you're getting nothing but static.

DonaldBaelish · 2017-01-21T17:48:19+00:00

If she's been fucking you eagerly, you'll listen to her pointless observations. You are her man after all. You don't want her having orbiters who get to soak her emotions like a good tampon untill eventually, you drive her so mad one day that she screws one of them.

But if you are not getting laid and she starts unloading her verbal novel, just get busy. Hit the gym, go write a book, etc.

ParadoxThatDrivesUs · 2017-01-21T20:16:11+00:00

If you're saying you're not getting enough sex, I'd start with the obvious stuff first: What do you look like?

stonepimpletilists · 2017-01-21T20:50:29+00:00

Sounds like someone has problems expressing and enforcing boundaries.

The problem isnt the chatter, its you. WISNIFG to start

BluepillProfessor · 2017-01-21T19:11:26+00:00

I'm fine with it except that it does not generate any tingles, on the contrary, it makes her dry up so bad.

Not all of life is the tingles- once you can generate them anyway. Are you?

How do you deal with this shit?

I would listen (for at least 1/2 hour every night and only loosely speaking) so long as you are getting the sex you want. I would also try to be the comforting daddy grunting an amused nod and laughing with amusement rather than the sympathetic girlfriend mining her feelings to absorb and sample them like a buffet.

youcantdenythat · 2017-01-21T20:56:41+00:00

I'm fine with it except that it does not generate any tingles, on the contrary, it makes her dry up so bad.

I agree, my woman does this too. Just keep in mind that women's feelings are fairly fluid and can be easily guided. Here's what I like to do.

When I first see her (after work, etc) I kiss her hard and cop a feel, have a little foreplay with her right away. This helps get the right mindset.
I let her talk for awhile, 30 mins ish. Then I segue the conversation into whatever I want to discuss. Every day I look for some little interesting story or something to share. Talking (about the right things) is important for woman in an LTR. (Not feelings, concerns, worries, etc.. just some interesting event)
After talking a little bit about whatever interesting thing happened that day I mix in some kino.
Then I get away from her for a bit. If she is following me around, I just start with a bathroom break or go out to the garage and do something. Maybe run to the store, whatever.

When I come back, some kino, some playful spanks, etc. Push/pull teasing. etc.

I guess the point is keep things sexy with her, let her talk a bit but don't let her go on and on for hours. Keep mixing things up.

JDRoedell · 2017-01-22T04:11:40+00:00

My wife doesn't really do this. Once or twice a week she will unload something about her day on me but that's about it. The rest is logistics, normal two way conversation or me teasing her.

Title	Girlfriend mode
Author	cheeseandhoneyy
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	January 21, 2017 5:26 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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