Help with initiating...

BluepillProfessor · 2015-08-22T15:06:19+00:00

Uncontrollable passion is one of the most attractive things to a woman because it triggers the potent desirability cue. Why do you want to be more detached?

Read The Way of the Superior Male, The Way of the Superior Lover, and the Sex God Method.

druganswer · 2015-08-20T18:17:56+00:00

I think you're just having trouble differentiating lust from feels in your head. Sex is best with someone you strongly lust but that feels similar to "feelings."

Or are you saying your sex is too romantic or some shit? like slow and kissing and shit? just start kissing down the neck sucking tit and going at it harder.

If you don't like this then maybe your partner doesn't check your boxes physically.

Countpudyoola · 2015-08-20T18:47:17+00:00

I know what you're not asking for. But honestly by addressing some of this, it affects your inner mindset about sex. This is 100% coming from a guy who thought sex was all about love...etc... totally wet noodle sessions.

Actions sometimes follow feelings but other times actions reinforce feelings. Be dominant, treat her like a sex toy more and your emotions can follow. Treat her like a bad girl. Who's doing something she shouldn't be. etc. you'll detach more and usually amp up her enthusiasm.

Forgive me delving into what you said you didn't want but just for example:

Place eg: Yes... move it out of the bedroom

Dynamic eg: look/be hungry, not loving. In the moment you're an animal... doing what you're driven to be doing , not a 1/2 of a loving partnership. Engage in just feeling the sensation and biology without it touching your feels. This is just action, sensation.

Position Doggie, Reverse cow girl, no kissing, less eye contact unless it's aggressive.

Movement Be dominant, move her around even if it's in missionary to position her better. Grab and pick up legs, ass, etc. treat like she needs help animating. And for the love of god, slap that ass! Test a hand on the neck... pin arms down.

Again, being more of a dominant , I want this...will have this... guy in the bedroom should help remove some of that squishy inner.

Afterwards...get up. Don't soak in the glow. Cuddle less. Rinse your junk and leave.

Sepean · 2015-08-20T21:05:50+00:00

Read the Sex God Method. It is on the sidebar for a reason.

RPMahoutsukai · 2015-08-21T09:56:48+00:00

Should you though? Should you look to take out the feels out of sex?

Read Sex God Method. Just read it and it will answer all your questions. Emotion is key, an emotionless robot will not satisfy her desires. You're either lacking Dominance, and your "wetness" makes you a submissive pussy, or you're thinking as a man you should not express emotion and desire, but rather be a stoic rock, or... whatever. We can guess, but that would be a waste of time, both ours and yours. If you spend just half an hour reading the beginning of SGM, you're gonna start slowly "getting" it, and if you spend several hours more and read it carefully to the end, you will get the answers you need

itstartstoday123 · 2015-08-20T18:29:04+00:00

I don't just like the purely physical sex...

If I am understanding you correctly it sounds like you are having trouble disconnecting your emotions.

If I'm right then it sounds like you need to not engage them from the start. Dirty talk and taking the loving, gentle and purely emotional aspect of your normal sex out if the equation Will help you just take her instead of make love to her. Take it out of the bedroom and Fuck her on the kitchen counter. Lol. Seriously, take it out of the comfort zone brotha, don't kiss her, skip foreplay. Do something off the wall like initiate in public outside of the comfort and peace of the bedroom.

Her reaction Will solidify the practice once it clicks with YOU.

Title	Help with initiating...
Author	ManTwoPointO
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Date	August 20, 2015 5:38 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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