Plate Date Advice

red-sfpplus · 2018-07-17T21:52:32+00:00

Been "dating" for 3 weeks. 3 different women. Slept with all 3 on the second date. The first "date" is a quick coffee meeting to make sure they are real, and not bat shit crazy. I setup the real "date" at that coffee meeting before they leave. Take control from the start.

I establish in that coffee meeting I expect two simple things.

1 - their baggage is theirs to manage and I do not want to hear about it, and my baggage is mine and they will not hear about it from me.

2 - I am not at this coffee meeting to discuss my past relationships. I am only interested in discussing how we can fit together, and taking about us.

Not a single question about my wife I am divorcing or kids. And I have fucked them all.

You set the frame, you dictate the terms.

suprathepeg · 2018-07-17T21:38:35+00:00

Where are you on your map? Levels of dread? Sidebar?

SBIII · 2018-07-18T07:39:10+00:00

Specifically on how to handle questions about my current relationship

what's your current relationship situation? you getting divorced? you cheating secretly? you cheating openly with the wife's blessing? how attractive is your wife? can she be used as a lure? i find most beautiful girls are curious about threesomes with attractive married couples

i'm not shy about this shit being my forte but i gotta know who the fuck you are before i give you any tips

*edit - i will say this though: if she knows you're married and agrees to hang out with you alone anyway, begin kino escalation aggressively right from the get-go. you should be touching nipple within the first 10 minutes or you're moving too slow

youscum · 2018-07-17T21:46:26+00:00

Be honest, but don't go on and on with a never-ending sob story. Dates are supposed to be fun, not depressing. One or two sentences is all you need to say and then change subjects.

Something like...

"Well obviously my marriage isn't great, but divorce laws don't exactly favor men. I want to remain a daily influence on my children, but don't want to sacrifice my own happiness in the process. So here we are. Mmmm, this stout looks good. What do you like to drink?"

Title	Plate Date Advice
Author	SBIII
Upvotes	6
Comments	32
Date	July 17, 2018 9:30 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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