First PMS coming since I started to unplug three weeks ago. MMSLP says to go beta during this time. I'm still perceived as beta and am not even passing shit and comfort tests that well yet. Should I do anything different during PMS?

She might be out of town for work for part of it, leaving me with the kid. Maybe that's beta enough? I am probably going to get a a babysitter and go out to party while she is out of town. Do I mention this to her now or when she is out. Do I get the hot babysitter to instill dread? Or too early for that?
I am lifting but have some bodyfat to lose. SMV is probably same as hers..7, but I do MMA, play in bands, have a high paying job, and lots of friends, and can raise it pretty quickly.

I do have some recent doubts about her fidelity. She told me that she needs to go to her work conference on Saturday (staying Saturday night). The website for the conference says it starts on Sunday. Do I bring this up?