A little about me: 35M, 6'1 205lbs (13%bf & finished bulking/lift 4 x a week), excelling in my career (6 figure salary), have a few hobbies I'm working on (one of which is working on my helicopter license). I have read all of the course prerequisites, along with the Book of Pook, 48 Laws, the entire Rational Male series, and 16 commandements.
To start, I met my current fiancé when she was 26. She was working in the corporate world and probably the hottest woman I ever had in my dating rotation. After about a year of plating her, I promoted her to LTR status and things moved onward from there. There were a lot of positives about her that added value to my life, which is why I wanted a relationship with her, and then moved forward to getting engaged with her as she shared my values for marriage & family life.
Four years later, she is now 30 years old, pursuing her Master's while working on a small business (startup with co-founder). She intends to do the business and be a stay-at-home mom, which I am fine with. Initially, when we first started dating she had a bit of an independent mentality but after some time she has become very submissive and anti-feminist. In addition, I do enjoy her company and she is pretty fun to hang out with and try new things with me.
Here is the thing...
Being that she is 30, she probably is about to hit her wall. I’ve noticed more belly fat on her stomach, whereas it used to be flat. She also has some fine lines on her face that she didn’t before. I’m 35M, at my peak fitness-wise and have an amazing 6 figure job, and have recently had a lot of really hot and successful women hitting on me. These women are also younger. But I’m afraid they may have the same damaged mentality a lot of younger women have these days.
Should I cut ties with my fiancé and pursue these better options, especially since career-wise I could eventually be C-level at my firm? I do feel emotionally connected to her and we are aligned in many ways but I don’t want to be “purchasing” old goods when I have better options physically. She wants to eventually become a mother, I also want kids, but I just want to maximize my options. I understand that I took 4 years of part of her “prime” life, but I also want to keep my options open as my SMV has been increasing a lot over the last few years.
Have any of you been in this situation before? If so, what's the best approach to take when making a decision like this? Thanks!
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