Posted before that the wife and I are having problems. Things are getting a bit better, but her grandma died a few days ago. She said she would like to go to Hawaii to support her family and to attend the funeral. Due to the fact I started a new job I can't make it. She will be taking my two kids as well because I more than likely will not be home. I just spent 1400 Dollars on plane tickets for them and feel like I just failed a giant shit test. Anybody have any insight on weather I did the right thing or not? Edit: Thanks for the input folks I feel better about the decision I made.