Unplugging pussy dealing with separation

sicrm · 2021-04-09T11:11:17+00:00

no matter what you do, you need to talk to a lawyer to see what you could be up against.

read your post back, you really think she’s not looking at other options?

thingsbrycesays · 2021-04-09T16:31:50+00:00

You need to act as if you are already broken up/ the divorce is imminent. Imagine it, make it real to you and go see an attorney ASAP (and keep your mouth shut about it)... Keep reading the sidebar, keep lifting, keep working on you.

if Im reading you correctly here, her best case scenario is staying at the house while she goes back to school/ gets back on her feet/ meets interesting new people while you foot the bill, keep her life stable and stay in limbo about your future. She hasn't just friend-zoned you, shes father-zoned you. If she wants to live like she did when she was a teenager, let her do it back at home with her parents.

This is one of those moments in life where you really need to be the man you imagine yourself one day becoming. First, I would cut ALL affection seeking from her (makes you seem weak and needy, so cut that shit out an STFU about it). Second, I would start planning your exit from the relationship even if you hope everything works out in the end (its a position of strength, shows you respect yourself/ have boundaries and is an action you can do). Keep working on yourself and use this time to focus on what you need to do to be attractive to new women. Sounds like your already working on this so keep it up. Cut out everything that makes you weak. You mention drinking and porn so start there and redouble your efforts. That feeling of being "horny" is you body's way of communicating to you to to go out and find a real girl to fuck. use that feeling to lift more/ dress better/ learn game/ etc. Make yourself fuckable again. Porn and Booze kills testosterone.

Jesus dude, remember your power and strength. Mentally come to terms with selling your house and losing half of your stuff. Worst case scenario you start your life over with almost half a million dollars. Start coming to terms with that. If you and your wife are able to work through this, and I think you can, the only way you'll be satisfied moving forward is if you really become the man you know your capable of being. What your kids will remember from this situation is either their dad was kinda a push over and a wimp or that he was a total bad ass who can handle anything thrown at him. Be a bad ass.

Over60_FireTempered3 · 2021-04-09T17:26:29+00:00

Here's an idea...

Try to be at least as uncommitted to the relationship as she is.

She is buying time to move out without missing a meal (that you pay for).

Isn't about time that YOU started making YOUR OWN plans?

wkndatbernardus · 2021-04-09T13:46:35+00:00

That 3 month separation last year? Yeah, that was a failed branch swing. She's 100% testing other options (i.e. banging dudes) while you're funding her life of leisure. Also, I love how you're spinning this new degree your wife is getting. Mark my words, the moment homegirl gets that diploma, it's gonna be divorce city and CS for a decade plus while she works part-time, at best.

Rpeeing · 2021-04-09T13:18:59+00:00

TL;DR: you’re newly single and you have close to half a million in equity.

Talk about first world problems...

Ole-Guy · 2021-04-09T23:03:03+00:00

You have lots of work to do from this point forward - full stop.

Be prepared to not see a new pussy for the next 3 to 6 months.
Be prepared for your finances to be sucked in fifteen different directions for the next year, until things are settled on your end between you, your lawyer, and your (soon to be) ex-wife.
Be prepared to up your game with weightlifting, hitting the sidebar, and taking ownership of your life to a new level that you haven't been at yet.
Be prepared to start your life over from scratch.
Be prepared to be the bad guy in someone else's story, to be the hero in your story.
Be prepared to walk into the darkness of the abyss, without knowing where you will come out on the otherside.
Be prepared for the new life that will be ahead of you within the next year or two after you keep putting in the work on yourself.

Be prepared.

Over60_FireTempered3 · 2021-04-09T19:58:09+00:00

Question is this, how to I adjust the mrp principles for this in house separation situation?

Maybe u/bogeyd6 would be inclined to help. At least read his old posts for some insight.

threekindsoflucky · 2021-04-09T16:23:39+00:00

What's my move gentlemen? Stfu and game with oi, stfu and treat her like a roommate? Everything I've read pertains to "your wife". How do I adjust mrp to "your separate but living together wife"? Having dinner made for me every night still is nice.

I will not live with her or support her throughout the next year while she goes to school, that is not on the table. I would say 2-3 more months is all I'm willing to wait before I fuck other women.

I am going to be footing the bill whether living with her or not. I will have to pay out the ass.

rpbb9999 · 2021-04-10T11:49:03+00:00

Shes going to hit you for child support and half your stuff no matter what

Title	Unplugging pussy dealing with separation
Author	wackarnolds99
Upvotes	9
Comments	50
Date	April 8, 2021 7:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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