What's up guys, I'll try to keep this as short as possible: I was hoping you could confirm that I'm making the right moves here because its the first time that I'm running into such a difficult level of LMR. I met this girl who was into me and is a friend of a friend (also I just found out that she has a boyfriend AWALT). Not that it means anything, but she's a 9 for me so I had some motivation to stick this one out rather than hard nexting. Last weekend at a bar I was getting IOIs from her so I escalated and got her back to my place, but she kept pulling away. I backed off, and tried re-escalating and eventually she started getting into it but refused anything more than making out etc. I soft nexted her until this weekend when she texted me asking what I was doing. I told her my friends just left but she could come over. This time around she started giving IOIs but refused to even kiss. This went on until I got tired and told her that she 'could leave'. She got upset and asked if I was kicking her out. In a nice tone I replyed 'I'm confused, I just don't see the point in us being in bed together if we are just going to sleep'. She said that she felt stressed because she was a loyal girlfriend and she felt like this was wrong.

So that brings me to my plan of action moving forward. I'm maintaining some degree of abundance, so I'm not all butthurt over the situation, but I still want to get with this chick. I've already soft nexted her indefinitely, but she is very perceptive to TRP strategy and will try to call me out on something like this.

Do I just hard next her at this point, or do you guys have any experience with eventually closing on a plate like this?