I've been working hard on improving my looks and mental state over the past year with the goal of improvingy my smv and finding somebody to start a family with (easier said than done honestly).

Thanks to this sub, I have finally been having some moderate success with grabbing numbers and going on dates. What I'm finding is that several girls have gone from shit testing me etc... to getting attached and treating me like their new boyfriend after 2 or 3 dates. While flattering, it really sucks to have the "break up" talk with them, I feel horrible letting them down and can't help but think that I'm misleading them into thinking that I'm ready to commit after such a short period of time. I also don't want to just ghost them, I hated being on the other end of that.

Is this a common problem for anybody else? How do you escalate, flirt, and be intimate with women without accidentally putting yourself into the relationship zone? I've never had this problem before if I'm being honest which I suppose is a good thing, but I also don't want to lead them on if that makes sense?