So there's this coworker, who won't be a coworker soon as I'm leaving. She looks like a model. Over the past couple of months I've been getting the following IOIs from her:

Runs her hands through her hair/touches her neck whenever we talk. Teases me Compliments my appearance & clothes, and also other stuff like intelligence & calmness Playfully kicks/hits me at work Finds excuses to come to my part of the office Smiles with twinkly eyes Sticks her tongue out at me Has told a coworker she likes me Shit tests me occasionally by telling me another guy/s is attractive Gives me random gifts and does little errands Constantly criticises her LTR boyfriend Meets me for coffee regularly at lunchtime At a recent party broke the touch barrier by interlinking hands, stroking my shoulder and touching my leg, also grabbing my waist At same party told me her bf has waited too long to commit. Told me that at the party she forgot where she was and felt like no one else was around (during our long chat).

Honestly, if you Google 'signs a girl likes you' I believe it wouldn't look much different to the above. She has the occasional cold spell with me but I believe this is guilt or 'hamstering', ASD.

The catch? I'm married with children. I'm caught between a sense of duty and a desire to do what my body is screaming at me to do while I still can (very much in the 'life is short' mindset at the moment).

I want this girl as a secret plate but think she would want to break up with her bf before doing anything. This may go against the principle of AWALT but she really doesn't seem like that type, her ASD is too high although we've both clearly crossed one line already.

It's a complete mess in short. Added to this there are ZERO logistics available if something were to happen. So I guess it won't. I'll leave work and we'll lose touch. I'll go from regretting something happening to regretting something not happening.