I understand the whole agree and amplify, and I'm a pro at acting aloof and amused. The problem I'm having is how to reconcile this kind of disconnected, mysterious, amused attitude with also being very direct about what I want in terms of sex and such. These things seem kind of contradictory to me. If a girl straight up asks me what my intentions are I will give a sarcastic over the top response, but should I just tell them straight out I want to fuck them?

I usually try to be direct about certain things and when I sense a shit test I switch to sarcastic and give an amused smile. I also rarely answer questions truthfully if it's something they don't need to know. However, maybe I am misunderstanding, but with a new girl I feel like being direct about my intentions to fuck them goes against my acting outcome independent and making them come to me with my nonchalant attitude.

Hopefully this makes sense to those reading it. I guess my question is just how to rectify these two ideas. I feel like stating my intention too clearly is breaking frame and seeking validation.