Advice needed - LTR cheated, lied - how do I proceed from here?

MisfitPL9 · 2018-06-25T02:55:23+00:00

Bullshit you are a long time lurker or else you would know what to do.

Man Up faggot and throw that bitch to the curb.

SirKolbath · 2018-06-25T03:02:30+00:00

You know what to do. You just don't want to because it's difficult. I don't accept that.

She cheated and lied. You owe her nothing.

Why is she still sharing a home with you? She should come home to find her shit on the porch. Failing that, give her XXXX amount of time (I'm suggesting 48 hours.) to get her shit moved (only if she has furniture and the like that needs to be packed.) You stay elsewhere until she's out.

After that, she gets no closure. No texts. No social media. No mutual friends. Nothing. She no longer exists.

Work on you. Monk mode for at least three months.

creating_my_life · 2018-06-25T02:59:03+00:00

"de facto".

get this cheating whore out of your life. like, yesterday. You don't owe her an explanation.

Here's your discussion: "Please take all your stuff and leave. Tonight."

Do not respond, justify, discuss, or engage.

And, never respond to a single thing she ever says to you again. She's dead to you. If she calls you, your reaction should be, "holy shit, dead people can make phonecalls!" And then you block that number too.

alleyteris · 2018-06-25T06:29:05+00:00

Long time lurker lol !

Listen the fuck up: First ,go buy a sweing kit and stitch your balls back . Then pack all her shit when she is out of the house and leave them outside the door being very carefull not to break anything . Block from all social medea and dont confront her for the break up because you owe her nothing also, dont fucking contact her ever.

Read the fucking side bar ypu lazy fuck

boy_named_su · 2018-06-25T04:06:45+00:00

Get all her shit and put it in storage or drop it off w her family or friends. Change your locks. Leave a note if you must. Rent her a (cheap) hotel room for one night if it helps

Block her everywhere. Don't communicate with her again. Stay with a friend if she's bangin on your door

BusterVadge · 2018-06-25T14:46:31+00:00

First off: Congrats on your rebirth.

Second off: Join a gym, kick her ass out, and channel your pain into sculpting your body.

You took her in and she betrayed you. You owe her NOTHING anymore. Tell her to go leech off some other simp. I would have her shit packed and ready to go when she returns.

HiredMind · 2018-06-25T03:12:03+00:00

If your home/apartment is in your name, start immediate eviction proceedings. Move anything of value to a location to which she has no access. In 30 days if she's not out, call the Sheriff to haul her ass out, by force if necessary. Change the locks.

If the home has her name on it, get yourself a new place and move out without notice.

vandaalen · 2018-06-25T07:39:06+00:00

Just put her stuff in front of the door, change locks, block everywhere, delete all traces of her, thank God he showed you now what a cheating lying filthy whore she is, instead of after you did something stupid like marrying her, enjoy life as a single and spin plates for at least the next three years. Don't tell her shit. She will know.

electricitygives · 2018-06-26T10:31:45+00:00

Go out with other girls, smile and shrug if she confronts you.

creating_my_life · 2018-07-07T21:41:03+00:00

it's been two weeks. What did you do about the whore who cheated on you?

friendandadvisor · 2018-06-25T09:16:16+00:00

Tell her that it's not working, and that she needs other living arrangements, stat.

Title	Advice needed - LTR cheated, lied - how do I proceed from here?
Author	Soaring-Phoenix
Upvotes	2
Comments	42
Date	June 25, 2018 2:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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