I'm still new to this so please forgive my lack of acronyms.

Background:So I've been dating this girl HB9 since November, and things had been going great. We met in class and she couldn't help but to be attracted to me as I am a man of higher value (Student, military background, status, good job, man with a plan...etc). The thing about this girl is that she has a a lot of orbiters, some who were past partners who agreed to friendship, some just true beta's; but the point is they are there to validate her, and give her attention (her words). Throughout our relationship I've never made a big deal about who she talks to, hangs out with, or parties with. Why? because I could honestly care less, she's with me.

But about two months ago she started a new job, and around this time we had gotten into a big argument on a date because of her bad attitude and behavior. This resulted in me sending her home (I was her ride) and going NC for thirteen days (she blocked me on social media). We worked it out, or so I thought. For the next couple of months I maintained my frame, never texting her too much, working on myself consistently; but the next time I hung out with her I realized something had changed. She stopped wanting to have sex with me, she started being secretive, asking me to take her home early while we were out hanging out, cancelling planned dates, and all round just acting weird.

Fast Forwarding to this past weekend, I messaged her on snapchat around 5pm in which she ignored me, only to call me around 3am "to check on me" I asked her what she was up too and she said something like "After work I hung out with friends, came back home, and went to sleep"-- I then calmly called her out on her bullshit, and her strange behavior. She replied saying " To be honest I'm glad you noticed, I've just been feeling weird about this and I've lost some sort of trust for you so I don't think you need to know what I've been up to. But I also don't want stop hanging out with you, I think I love you." I then told her that she was confusing me and I asked "Do you want me to leave you alone?" she replied "Yeah only for a little bit though." I said okay. ( she also blocked me from seeing her stories)

The next morning I meditated on everything that had happened and I texted her saying something to the effect of this- "So we talked yesterday, and I know we're supposed to be on break, or whatever( In my experience that means breakup) but I think I'm going to end it here. The way you've been secretive, coupled with you feeling "weird" about things makes me think there's another guy in one capacity or another, and I'm not going to be worrying about something like that, this way you can do whatever you want, without worrying about me. I like you as a person, care about and I want the best for you, but I don't think we should continue, because it's not healthy for me." She never replied to me even in person. I got my things from her, she gave me a kiss ( I didn't kiss her back) I've been NC for 6 days.