Anyone else feel like the more you learn about women nature and current state of western society, the less you want to commit to a woman in a long term relationship?

vodkamonsta · 2017-06-03T16:59:56+00:00

Pros and cons. I prefer ltrs because the sex is better, it's fun having a girl available to go on trips with, go out to dinner with... I'm not going to marry again or cohabitate again. It's a good set up, I'm honest about it. I know people are gonna do what they are going to do and if a girl decides she wants to get married or have a kid they're going to do it. The what is more important then the who. It's just not going to be me. Fair enough.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-06-03T17:40:41+00:00

I have a couple of open LTRs because the women have chosen to commit to me in the hopes that I will eventually "come around", but there is no need for me to ever co-habitate...when women say "But we'd save money!" they mean THEY would save money (or, more correctly spend more of their own income); no dude ever saved money by letting his g/f move in with him.

The only reason to co-habitate is if, for whatever reason, you get married, or if you have children, so you can be present in your kids' lives and make sure they don't wind up fucked in the head.

In the mean time, I'm happy to have several slices of different types of cake, as it were.

raisins3142 · 2017-06-03T18:31:05+00:00

Of course. It seems that the more you learn, the better able you'd be to be in a relationship but the less likely you are to desire one. A paradox.

_the_shape_ · 2017-06-03T17:54:50+00:00

Absolutely.

LTRs have some nice upsides though (as pointed out by someone else). I think sexual chemistry can continue to rise as you both learn what gets the two of you off, so there's that. On the other hand, familiarity does breed contempt too though (that's been my experience at least), so eventually I'll start to get irritated by her and I'm sure it operates the same the other way around, but great sex and a solid respect for personal space has a way of delaying that phase from developing.

Always remind yourself that any relationship you are involved in can end at any moment, without any notice even. A girl you met (and fucked) last night can fall off the face of the Earth despite you rocking her world for what seemed like forever, and your girlfriend of 4 years might drop the news on you that it's over out of nowhere despite everything seeming just fine a few days ago when you last saw her. That's one of the more important takeaways from the red pill - that there is no locking her down like the deluded blue pillers believe. "Putting a ring on it" or making her your girlfriend doesn't shut down her attraction for other men nor does it reprogram her nature to one of unwavering loyalty to you and only you.

Enjoy her while you have her, and remind yourself of this constantly as a way to prepare for either a (possible) drought (if you're not plating girls) or to repeat the cycle with another one.

Renzotl56 · 2017-06-03T17:19:14+00:00

Personally i don't want to get married anymore or for a really long time at least . I've already done the ltr. Personally relationships take too much time away and i'm focused on bigger things that need all my attention(career school connections).

And i want to get my dick wet with all types of women from all races and ethnicities and travel a lot. So yea not planning on marriage. But if you want to get married you can still be trp just don't slip up.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-06-03T18:09:53+00:00

Yeah, at this point if she's not easy I don't waste my time really. The thought of investing time in a chick makes me laugh. I next them easy. I don't even care about get life, her last name, shit even her name in general. I just want to fuck.

NYLON_G · 2017-06-03T22:34:25+00:00

I don't even think about short term anymore. After a certain age women become intolerable. Behaving like they were in their 20's when in fact they are much older but no wiser. There comes a point where the behaviours have been seen so many times before you think they were all blessed with the same defective gene. I'll gladly pay for sex in order to avoid the shit that comes from relationships.

MattyAnon · 2017-06-04T04:21:46+00:00

Yup.

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