Argument Tips.

throwaway-aa2 · 2015-06-17T13:20:41+00:00

Here's the deal: women tend to do this shit because they can get away with it... there's no downside to it for them. They get to push and either see what you do, or push and gain ground as you are now being pulled into her frame... even LETTING her keep setting the tone "you never cared about us" completely unchecked is a mistake. Now she knows whenever things don't go her way, she can whine / vent and you'll at least listen. Respond in a way that makes her second guess every time she does it. When she gets like that, you could

a. Tell her that she needs to leave and collect herself (or something like this)

b. Tell her "If you don't like how things are, you can leave"

c. Tell her "I don't like when you become self conscious (or complain), it's unattractive"

d. etc.

Basically put pressure on her whenever she pulls this shit. Train her in a way that she has a good reason to hold her tongue... been there, done that my friend. I've had a girlfriend say passive aggressive shit to me, and I IMMEDIATELY just cancel our plans on some "actually something came up, won't be able to see you today. later." and IMMEDIATELY get the apology because she KNOWS I'm fucking ready to walk. And then good sex is had later because of it, but from there on she's careful and actually filters herself.

Flex some muscle dude. Don't let a bitch set a frame that makes it OK for her to have an emotional argument.

TheDamnedEngineer · 2015-06-17T12:42:28+00:00

Your best response is no response, she doesn't want to argue, she just wants to whine and complain.

Just stop giving a fuck at that point and go away.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-06-17T15:57:38+00:00

There are two theories for "How to Argue With a Woman".

Neither one of them work.

Hecticchow · 2015-06-17T11:32:09+00:00

Just avoid arguing altogether, you can't win that. Women base their actions and words around emotions, not reason.

Johnny10toes · 2015-06-17T13:15:16+00:00

Bill Burr has a video on YouTube and he talks about this.

When a woman is arguing with you, and what she's doing there is trying to guilt trip you, if she's winning she's on point. She will not let you deviate from the point. If she's losing the argument she'll try to get off point to other things and try to make you slip up. Don't go to that. It's a trap and you've won the argument already. By doing this they get you to think emotionally and that's her territory. The only time you need to be thinking emotionally is when you're developing plans to push and pull her emotionally.

stealthcreeper · 2015-06-17T12:08:39+00:00

1- Imagine she's a dog

2- Tell her to sit and be quiet

3- Give her a bone

4- Profit

mfw she really is a dog

[deleted] · 2015-06-17T11:33:36+00:00

If you're staying calm, you're responding correctly. She might be wanting drama (AKA getting bored). Just piss her off and make her wait more often. It's a game, so you may as well have fun with it.

TheMoneyMan6115 · 2015-06-17T17:36:06+00:00

Walk over to your computer, get to work on some projects. She needs to see that her emotional outburst isn't going to elicit a response from you. She wants attention, stop giving it. Only give attention when she's behaving. She'll quickly start acting in the way you want.

Title	Argument Tips.
Author	Hunterliv
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	June 17, 2015 11:24 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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