I am a freshman in college currently on winter break wondering whether or not I should tell via. Facebook a girl that I went on a date with (went haphazardly; she invited an entire group of friends and flaked on a one-on-one) "Merry Christmas"? I've never spoken to her on Facebook before. I think her actions that day were predicated on her being quite nervous because she has initiated since and we haven't spoken since break. However I figured since I failed to initiate Kino and a number that I should simply take a loss here.

She lives on the floor as me and I was also wondering if I should tell another girl who lives on my floor (added me shortly after the date and is friends with her) the same; not only to display an abundance mentality but also because I am quite interested in the one on my floor. However if I do this I think it will quickly earn me the reputation of a "player", and the girl I went on a "date" with will likely next me immediately. She used to be very interested in me but I incessantly brushed her off due to oneitis with another girl.