I have a good woman (feminine, cooks, cleans, happy to follow when I lead, will be a great mother to my children, etc) only thing is, her shit tests are pretty heavy and she is very emotional.

I want to learn about frame, passing shit tests, what I can reasonably expect from my wife, and getting rid of my beta tendencies to get things running more smoothly at home and at work (and life in general, I guess), but I don't want to slog through pages about "spinning plates" or "next that ho".

Are there any good sites/blogs/cheat sheets?

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