Beta mentality? Finding info years later

ModsCantBanMe2020 · 2021-03-08T15:38:37+00:00

Okay, bro

antonthecad · 2021-03-08T15:59:22+00:00

Vote with your feet. She has disrespected you and everything you allow her to do from this point on is on you. You've had your warning...

Jetrous · 2021-03-08T16:02:33+00:00

Asking if you're being beta is beta. You do whatever you have to do.

I don't really understand what your relationship with her is. Are you two exclusive? Because she obviously doesn't see it that way.

Let's assume you take her as your girlfriend. If you do, you shouldn't. Even if she's not cheating on you now, which I doubt, are you really gonna continue a relationship with someone who cheated on you multiple times? Keep fucking her, find new girls, start fucking them, break up with her, move on.

Subutai_Baghatur · 2021-03-08T16:17:55+00:00

Been with girl for some years now, stumble led upon her open Facebook when she was drunk on a call and left it open going to bed, turns out early in our relationship she was spinning plates with another guy.

How early? Before or after you two were official?

She also cheated after the first date, made out with a guy in Mexico, and continued to express sexual interest in the classmate while we started banging.

Unless she gave you her exclusivity during that first date, it is not cheating.

Do I confront or leave it, she’s in my frame now and this behaviour is done with but nobody wants to be #2 as it’s fucking beta and I want revenge.

Either leave it or leave her if you cannot get over this.

themostgianthorse · 2021-03-08T15:56:40+00:00

These conversations took place years ago or they took place recently?

What’s your gut tell you?

LTRs must have value added. How do you feel about the quantity or quality of value that she adds now?

If it were me, having discovered this information, my understanding of our relationship would fundamentally have changed. I’ve read through the sidebar and have enough experience to know what my future would look like.

slrml617 · 2021-03-08T17:03:32+00:00

Just to give you some perspective. I've been that "other" guy. And knowing the whole story from the get go about "you", and the fact that "you" want to go LTR with her was honestly hilarious to see from the sidelines.

Now, what do you think you should do?

travellingsomewhere1 · 2021-03-08T18:06:19+00:00

Been with girl for some years now, stumble led upon her open Facebook when she was drunk

You guys just never fucking learn.

Elatea · 2021-03-09T00:26:34+00:00

Do I confront or leave it

drop her from ur life after disconnecting anything she could damage and never talk to her again, youd be doing yourself a favour in long run

Title	Beta mentality? Finding info years later
Author	Romu_HS
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	March 8, 2021 3:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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