Beta talents?

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-08-30T13:50:44+00:00

This might sound weird,

Already qualifying yourself. You're right. Who are we to argue otherwise? You weirdo, you....

I play guitar,

Learn to shred and how to work a crowd.

I read a lot ,etc.

Educate yourself. Read some nonfiction.

Even archery which is one of my hobbies that can be considered more masculine is filled with a bunch of neckbeards and nerdy wimps.

You're embarrassed to be seen around "those guys" huh?

Do these hobbies make me look soft?

Apparently it does, according to your frame.

Might want to fix that.

wawakaka · 2018-08-30T13:59:45+00:00

best chefs in the world are men...CHEF RAMSAY is no Fem

THE GUITAR ...shit who gets more tail than rock stars...JOE PERRY, SLASH, RITCHIE SAMBORA, TED NUGENT...

your talents are masculine in that they use the masculine brain.

mr_kuk · 2018-08-30T14:05:24+00:00

Hiiii guys! I want attention, here are some things you can complement me on tihi! Lol!

SauliusTRP · 2018-08-30T14:11:17+00:00

All the normal hobbies, if you think other, you still can use them to your advantage:

Cooking - invite her over to cook together (cheaper than taking her to "date" and can escalate / isolate at your place);

Drawing - invite her over to watch your drawings (for plausible deniability to isolate her and escalate further);

Guitar - same as drawing, tell you can play guitar and creating some lyrics you want to sing for her (again reason for plausible deniability);

Reading - good in general for improvement and general knowledge

Pluglord · 2018-08-30T14:24:46+00:00

What the fuck are beta talents?

MotiMorphosys · 2018-08-30T14:26:51+00:00

Wtf is a "beta" hobby?

And if there were such a thing, guitar would never be anywhere that catergory.any an undeserving beta has gotten pussy well above his level due to the ol geetar.

opper-hombre1 · 2018-08-30T14:33:37+00:00

Idk who the fuck told you those hobbies are soft, but those are all great hobbies to have and even better if you can get really good at them (cooking/guitar). The only thing beta about this post is how you worded it (this might sound weird) and your frame

lostbuthopefull · 2018-08-30T15:10:57+00:00

no, they give you talking points and it seems like you have a life. That's good, a lot of people don't do shit but go to school, work, lift, and watch Netflix

Rosace_89 · 2018-08-30T12:38:08+00:00

Get a masculine body (preferably yours) then ask girls to come home to draw them nude, you'll get panties wet as the Titanic (but hotter)

JordanRedfort · 2018-08-30T13:44:48+00:00

Yes. Unless you spend your free time as the captain of the football team, a master of Brazili Jiu-Jitsu or fixing your car, you’re a beta male and you have no place here.

I think you’ve misinterpreted every single hobby you engage in. Allow me to explain why:

Cooking is an EXTREMELY high value hobby. Being independent and able to provide for yourself is a very attractive quality.

I don’t know what you read about, but reading gives you a wide variety of insight into a bunch of topics. Based on the books I’ve read, I could easily have a chat with someone for hours. Again, not a beta hobby.

How much pussy do musicians get? That one should speak for itself. Playing and performing any instrument is an alpha activity. Period.

Finally, archery may not be as exciting as hunting or shooting. But you are still holding a dangerous weapon in your hand, aiming at a target and firing. My point is not to be ashamed of anything you do; own it.

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-08-30T12:32:26+00:00

Most things in life aren't alfa or beta in their nature. It's how you go about them that determines that. If you like dolls and are apologetic about it's beta. If you're upfront and don't give a fuck about people's reaction to it, it's fine.

One of the most important lessons I've picked up in my journey is to not feel like you have to be sorry about who you are. Who you are deep down won't change much, but you can change how you convey it to the world.

10 years ago I would focus my energy on what I thought people/the world expected of me, and live according to that. Determine internal factors by external factors. Now I do the opposite. I focus on myself first. External factors may play a part, but only if they don't compromise what I want.

Title	Beta talents?
Author	Mostass
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	August 30, 2018 12:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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