Bringing new dates to the same place?

ApdoSenpai · 2020-10-27T19:44:17+00:00

Mix it up if you want, but it adds social clout if the people and bartenders know you. It helps with attraction, so keep going there with you like it

hedged6161 · 2020-10-27T20:33:20+00:00

I’m in favor this. On a date, you want to be as comfortable as possible and familiarity is key. The worst Is when you go on a date and you have no idea about the menu, scene, etc.

TheRedPillMonkey · 2020-10-27T20:54:21+00:00

Nothing wrong with the same place. I took numerous dates to the same place and the wait staff started giving me looks and it was fun to see their faces with my rotation. The social proof is fun too.

However, I also used dates as a chance to explore. I live in a big city and if I met a girl I'd ask for recommendations near her if I had never explored that part of town before. It's fun trying new places and more fun with someone else. It also was a good conversation piece experiencing something new with someone.

2020-10-27T20:19:17+00:00

I rotate between 3 bars to not overdo it, but the looks on the bartender’s face when I show up with a new one again is always priceless. Enjoy those little things, Only good will come from it really, and if they throw some jabs at you it’s more of an easy opportunity to look good.

Mindful_Stoic81 · 2020-10-27T22:39:02+00:00

I did that for a while because it simply worked best this way. WHatever makes you comfortable.

As far as i'm concerned, same couple bars, first one as a feel out, see how/if we click, second 5 minutes from first, cosier, where we get to sit closer to each other, and where the closing eventually happens before we hit to my place (Or hers).

KeyRepresentative · 2020-10-28T21:26:26+00:00

I do. I know the menu, the staff, etc. Don’t let her know it’s your date spot, but it’s fine to say you stop in regularly.

Psychological_Radish · 2020-10-29T15:16:57+00:00

Pre-Covid I consistently met girls at the same two bars, depending on the circumstances. One was a 15 min drive downtown, the other a 10 min walk from my apartment. And yeah, you start to get knowing looks from the bartenders which is always amusing.

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

Title	Bringing new dates to the same place?
Author	93til1nfinity
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	October 27, 2020 7:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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