Ive always had a minor anal fetish with porn and shit, but ive never really done anything irl besides massaging a girls butthole with my thumb fuckin her from behind. Any time ive brought it up, shes either not willing or says she is but never actually does it.

Ive been talking to this chick. Shes a little older by 2 years (im 30). I had asked her last night about wearing a sexy bunny costume, and then i mentioned a bunny tail buttplug. She was all about it and seems pretty fuckin kinky.

So whats the move for this? I imagine IRL without fucking a gaping pornstars asshole, it takes some warming up and a ton of lube. Lots of finger play first? Should I introduce a toy beforehand? Are buttplugs necessary to stretch it out?

Even if I just get her a plug to use while we are fucking seems like a hot idea. But im new to all of this and i wanna to introduce new kinks in my sex life.