Can you be a nice guy who's alpha?

throwawaymatthew · 2014-05-11T17:48:50+00:00

you don't have to be a super sadistic cunt to have boundries and standards.

[deleted] · 2014-05-11T18:08:07+00:00

If anything this is the best you can be. An awesome person that knows how to set boundaries and not take shit. Someone that people genuinely want to be around. Of course you can be an alpha that's a nice guy.

Hyooge · 2014-05-11T20:29:01+00:00

When you find yourself with lots of cool male mates and girls wanting to be with you you have found the balance. If guys don't like you you've either gone too far or are a loser. Remember that the guys girls call dicks aren't really as bad as they make out them to be, they just don't give in to her demands like most boys. Best to be a massive prick than a submissive pushover.

I like to jokingly tell girls I'm a really nice guy after I've shown I haven't because they normally reveal what they really think. Great for showing if you're doing well or not.

Example

[deleted] · 2014-05-11T18:56:21+00:00

You need to remember TRP is about learning the underlining theory on how sexually works. A misconception is that you must display alpha traits all the time. This is not the case. An alpha will do beta things because he wants to for himself and expects nothing in return. During LTR you will also need to show respect to your partner. TRP says that you should be the captain and she the first mate not the cabin boy

drallcom3 · 2014-05-11T20:32:46+00:00

You can, BUT you still have to make the move on women. Otherwise you're a real "nice guy".

A nice alpha is the real alpha. You don't constantly have to prove your status by being loud and obnoxious, you're just yourself.

Air4ce1 · 2014-05-11T17:48:35+00:00

What do you mean with a red/blue pill answer?

needathrowawayplease · 2014-05-12T04:25:24+00:00

Yes.

MrEiffel · 2014-05-12T12:02:47+00:00

The question is not What you doing, its Why.

If you do nice things for a girl u know because you're secretly in love with her but you're to much of a loser to actually do something, then yes it is pure beta behaviour and you should immediatly change your ways.

If you do nice things for someone simply because you want to do them with no ulterior motive, sure go ahead.

Haptic_Affinity · 2014-05-12T20:53:00+00:00

Honesty is not always the best policy, with regards to holding your frame.

You do not need to explain why you act the way you do.

Title	Can you be a nice guy who's alpha?
Author	Air4ce1
Upvotes	13
Comments	15
Date	May 11, 2014 5:22 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/25ai33/can_you_be_a_nice_guy_whos_alpha/
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