cheating

Montrealais69 · 2018-01-19T19:41:20+00:00

It's only cheating if you promised exclusivity. Don't promise exclusivity if you aren't prepared to respect that promise.

If you didn't promise exclusivity, neither deny nor confirm - it's none of her damn business. If she doesn't like it - there's the door.

If you did promise exclusivity, still neither deny nor confirm. If you deny, you are essentially saying that she owns your sexuality and that you need her permission to have sex. You don't. If she doesn't like it - there's the door.

You're probably best off breaking it off though. If she suspects you of cheating, the likelihood of her trying a "revenge cheat" is very high. She will probably cheat on you.

jb_trp · 2018-01-19T19:33:58+00:00

It's really ironic that we have a huge circlejerk on TRP whenever a girl cheats on her man: "Bro, she's a skank, NEXT HER!" And posts where the dude gives her the harshest next get celebrated with the most upvotes.

And then we chant the mantra, "TRP is amoral. Don't tell me not to cheat if I want to cheat."

Dude, if you want a bunch of random pussy, don't be in an LTR. If you feel like you need to cheat, don't be in an LTR. If you want commitment from a girl and want random hookups, have an open relationship (but it's a sucker's bet for you). If you are dumb enough to cheat when promising exclusivity, don't lie and look like a little bitch by denying reality in the face of obvious evidence. Just own it.

PraiseBasedDonut · 2018-01-19T19:14:21+00:00

It is what it is , as you said. But while TRP is amoral i think you shouldn’t cheat if you are “exclusive”. However you can spin plates as much as you want.

SeamusAwl · 2018-01-19T20:13:13+00:00

You own your shit. You get caught cheating. Admit it and own the consequences.

Her: did you sleep with another girl last night? You: yes Her: we are done You: okay

TRP is ammoral means we are not going to question if you want to fuck 1000s of girls. But an alpha male owns his shit. he doesnt get into an LTR and slinks behind her back.

bluemoviebaz · 2018-01-19T19:16:35+00:00

Trp is the fucking Truth the world is built on the Ammoral

SirKolbath · 2018-01-20T00:28:34+00:00

You cheated if you broke your word. End discussion.

Denying something you have done is further breaking your word. It's lying. You should not even consider such a thing. Based on these two statements it sounds like you have an integrity problem.

The best decision you can make under the circumstances is to tell her that you are not exclusive and if she doesn't like it she is free to leave. Regardless which choice she makes, you need to stop lying. There is nothing Red Pill about a lack of honor.Your reputation is your life.

Kommanderdude · 2018-01-19T20:19:47+00:00

Yes trp is ammoral but branch swinging is feminine behavior. As a man, you shouldn’t be engaging in feminine behavior. Men cheating is just another form of having a lack of abundance in life. If you’re not happy just move on. Oh that’s right you have zero abundance so you like to have your comfort girl at home because you think you can’t get pussy all the time.

fnordsnord · 2018-01-19T20:56:19+00:00

"I'm not going to dignify that with a response. If you don't think you can trust me, you need to break up with me. If you do trust me, why are we having this conversation?"

Lord_Perfumes · 2018-01-19T20:50:10+00:00

trp is ammoral

? Yeah ok. First of all, TRP opposes long-term relationships to begin with. If you're adhering so strongly to Red Pill tenets, why are you even posing this question?

2: Most men who cheat do so for validation because they're insecure, not because they just NEED that other woman's body. But they'll rarely ever admit this to themselves.

Have fun going through life as an 'amoral red-piller'. One day you'll wake up just as miserable as when you started.

Title	cheating
Author	tdethefk
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	January 19, 2018 6:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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2: Most men who cheat do so for validation because they're insecure, not because they just NEED that other woman's body. But they'll rarely ever admit this to themselves.