Cheating

TRPdating · 2015-11-06T02:50:40+00:00

Worst case scenario is your girl says she doesn't want that.

Then you weight the cost/benefit of losing her vs gaining what you desire.

Unless you don't give a shit about morality, then just do whatever the fuck you want.

stickfiguresk · 2015-11-06T03:00:35+00:00

Do what you like, man. IMHO, it's much more fulfilling to be honest and spin plates though. There's ofcourse the chance she'll bail, but that chance is there already. Why lie? Lying is work.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-11-06T05:37:40+00:00

I'm proud of my cheating virginity, as it gives me moral high ground if an LTR crosses a line. I feel better about ending it. There is an inner confidence to knowing I am the prize - part of my SMV is that if a girl locks me down as a boyfriend, I am honest and committed to making the relationship work. I will not cheat.

Granted, I'm not going to get into another LTR anytime soon. But having that value in my back pocket is something I like.

fluviant · 2015-11-06T02:59:41+00:00

You've gotta set up your LTR (the relationship, not the woman) in order to accommodate cheating. You might have dun goof'd by now.

For example, if you said to her, "gonna hang with the boys tonight and watch the game," would she be able to find out you're blatantly lying, by checking Facebook/social media/texting/etc? She should not be involved with your inner circle of male friends. She has no business there. It's fine for her to meet them and such, but you are the only vehicle through which she has contact with them.

Your other option is to take her down the casual/constant threesome path, that is far more legwork, both in effort- and in time-investment.

fnordsnord · 2015-11-06T03:26:49+00:00

It took me a while. I have a wife, an open marriage, a girlfriend, and a fuck buddy. I used to have three fuck buddies, but two of them fell into the monogamy trap.

If you want variety AND an LTR it takes longer to find a woman that will go for that.

prodigy2throw · 2015-11-06T07:35:59+00:00

Do what you want. This isn't a morality sub. Just know the potential consequences.

chief_slap_ahoe · 2015-11-06T10:33:37+00:00

To each their own. But part of becoming the best man you can be is learning control.

throw_em_all · 2015-11-06T22:25:12+00:00

How we cheat.

It's only cheating because you don't want to sacrifice regular access to pussy in order to pursue your desire of fresh new pussy.

Grow a pair and either break it or suck it.

JeffsRP · 2015-11-06T03:02:41+00:00

Testosterone levels are shown to increase in a man after he finds a NEW woman.

We are designed to fuck everything that move.

I do just that.

Fuck monogamy.

Title	Cheating
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Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	November 6, 2015 2:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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