Chick that Flakes

jjj2576 · 2021-01-18T02:39:29+00:00

Why bother hanging out with a flakey person?

FinancialThanks1 · 2021-01-18T01:01:05+00:00

Here's my playbook.

When you can tell a flake is coming.

I commented this yesterday on a post. You can generally tell when a flake is coming. Girls will either go quite before you're supposed to hangout or you'll start getting texts like, "I'm pretty tired", "I have so much homework to do", etc.

When you start to get those texts you preemptively flake on her. Tell her that she should rest or work on her homework and you can hangout a different time. She will be able to tell from the ease at which you flake on her that you're preselected. This will then put her on the back foot and make her reevaluate your status. I've fucked girls on more than one occasion by employing this tactic.

When you get flaked on.

However, if a girl does beat you to the punch and flakes on you first it's simple. You just say "no problem at all" and then don't text her for a few hours or until the next day. This will tell her that it doesn't really bother you and you probably just went and fucked one of your other plates. It works best when you actually have other plates to go fuck.

kimmusmaximus · 2021-01-18T05:54:06+00:00

First time flake: I leave the door open to reschedule, but only if she initiates. For example, just today I had a girl cancel plans because her coworker tested positive for COVID and she has to get tested. I told her "Let me know if it comes back negative and we'll reschedule." A first time flake in my opinion is acceptable, sometimes life does legitimately throw curveballs at you.

Second time flake: If she flakes on plans again, I ghost. At this point she will either A. Beg for another chance or B. I never hear from her again. No self-respecting person should continue to try to make plans with someone who flakes more than once.

No matter what you do in response to a flake, don't say ANYTHING to her about your feelings being hurt. If you let her flaking get under your skin, you've already lost her. Even if she gives a stupid-ass excuse like her goldfish dying or she is going to the ER for a chipmunk bite, don't give your opinion in any way.

AuberyBitoni · 2021-01-18T10:38:34+00:00

Used to give them one more chance. But now, if a chick flakes, it's an instant next.

WIA20XX · 2021-01-18T05:19:28+00:00

I changed my life to cut down on flakes. I stopped doing dates, and tell chicks to meet me at a place I want to be.

Since then, I've been stood up a handful of times, and it's always been when I break my code.

If you still want to put the kielbasa in her buns, you gotta pretend it didn't happen. And get her out again. She has all the power until the bang. And then the balance shifts. Stop crying about the rules and learn how to play the game

Milacel · 2021-01-18T01:00:22+00:00

Make sure she knows that you have better things to be doing than her. If you leave an impression on her, she might come knocking later. Either that or fully ghost her and suddenly stop replying.

Internet-Top · 2021-01-18T14:41:21+00:00

If a chick flakes on you just reply "no problem" and go dead silent for a couple of days. A really good comeback is to go something cool in the same time your date was and post it on IG. I'm 18 so idk if you're active / she follows you. But for example go to the gym, hang out with a friend (if you have a girl-friend-) and post a story. She'll reevaluate your value and won't flake on you the next time, maybe even she'll be the one to reschedule.

MattyAnon · 2021-01-18T14:50:35+00:00

How do you guys deal with a chick that flakes on dates?

She gets to flake once, after that she doesn't get special time set aside.

Basically laugh it off the first time...... BUT...... don't make special arrangements with her again.

Eg.... "Sure, hit me up Friday, see if I'm free". Or "I'm going to X place to meet friends, come and join us".

Basically if she isn't respecting your time, don't let her do it again.

dartyszn4 · 2021-01-19T16:09:03+00:00

Hit the remove or unfollow button and then meet hotter women

btt069 · 2021-01-18T10:56:22+00:00

there are different kinds of flakes too if one kind of flake bothers you say her in the face about it be brave man dont feel afraid you should put yourself first

i was gonna end my comment here but since you said why close door to pussy

i would say you this

wait 2 days after very limited or no contact with the girl. if and only if the girl is at her home and you know where she lives do this:

text her saying i was going to amusement park with Sam but he had to visit his mother so would you like to join?

dont show her your direct interest on her by saying like this: how about we go to amusement park today i have bought us tickets.

dont say this way. now if she flakes on that Sam trick too. she isnt interested

but and BUT if she is interested, you surely can identify her cheerful nature.

dont go for the pussy directly go for the public hangout and make your way in through some tricks.

here is a life hack to you, if you and a new girl go to a bar together ask the bartender for some help on how to get her. bartenders give very good knowledge if they are friendly.

Title	Chick that Flakes
Author	throwaway201838
Upvotes	17
Comments	22
Date	January 18, 2021 12:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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