Comfort Tests

NightwingTRP · 2015-09-15T11:53:18+00:00

Most comfort tests are designed around her worry that you're not going to stick around. Usually the best response to that is physical. Simply show her that she is desired.

Usually when she's asking for something it's a subtle shit test. However if you want to give her what she's asking for, then simply reframe the discussion. So that it moves from her asking for X to you deciding "nah, but I fancy Y and you can tag along." You give her an equivalent that meets her needs while maintaining the frame of the interaction and staying dominant. It's subtle, but useful. You can also turn it into an exchange where she is required to give you something first. This ensures you are one making the decisions on when she gets what she wants. Use your own instincts to ensure you're not over-indulging her and she's becoming too shit-testy.

I'm sure you've seen all the statements that women are like children. They'll ask for some chocolate, if you make them finish their dinner first and let them have some chocolate... they're just going to ask for a new toy next. If they get that new toy, it won't be long until she asks for a pony. Decide how far you're willing to take things and remain firm... but never get her the pony!

SkorchZang · 2015-09-15T21:45:57+00:00

If you ask me, it's a question of how much the particular girl deserves. Big difference, compared to coming at it from the "how do I do it right, to keep her around" perspective. Not trying to keep her around, or anything like that. Instead you're more thinking along the lines of, how much has this girl done for me lately?

If she's been a good girl and done right by you, then absolutely, she earned her treats. Princess her up and enjoy it together with her. A lot of women never put in the work though and yet still expect "the treats", so that's how you know that you need to shut those down. Ironically, shutting down a comfort test in that situation can massively amplify her attraction to you.

Title	Comfort Tests
Author	robotghow
Upvotes	8
Comments	7
Date	September 15, 2015 11:41 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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